Forming of love relationship – a difficult task, but interesting. The main place is given to a numerous talk thanks to which both the guy and the girl recognize each other. Some subjects can be discussed again and again, and here it is better for young man not to know about some moments.
Freedom of speech: honestly and frankly
At the beginning some lovers prefer to do without words. Others, on the contrary, carefully recognize the new person, asking a set of questions and being interested, apparently, in real trifles. If the guy constantly asks something or you want to open as much as possible, safely tell about the following facts of the biography.
For example, openly and honestly tell where studied, you work as far as your field of activity is interesting to you. Such data will show in you business qualities, aspiration to independence, desire to be useful. The girl who is carried away by the chosen profession looks successful and happy life. And it very much attracts young people.
It will be interesting to guy also in love to learn about hobbies of the girl. Tell about darlings and the books read now, recently watched movies or the attended exhibitions. If sports occupations, animals, travel and so forth fall within the scope of your interests – discuss also them. Surely ask reciprocal questions to be aware of the interests of the guy. If your appointment not the first, you can tell the guy about the plans for the future. It needs to be made to understand as far as he shares your aspirations. Nearby there has to be a person in whom you will find support and a support in any situation. Do not forget to tell also about the relatives. Only be vigilant and do not distribute too personal information. Remember that sometime your guy will get acquainted with the discussed person (mother, the father, the sister and so forth) and can accidentally designate knowledge of details unnecessary it. This situation will be inconvenient both for you, and for your relative.
Necessary filtration
With darling there is a wish to speak about everything. This desire is feasible under one condition: if you are able to filter the presented information. This quality will save your relations from unnecessary disputes, thoughts and quarrels. The most delicate topic in the new relations – ex-boyfriends of the girl. At some point it will become interesting to your young man to learn their quantity, features, the reasons of partings and the facts other, unnecessary it. Eluding from discussion will push on the bad assumptions, honesty can become the reason of the subsequent jealousy. In this aspect safely it is possible to tell the guy, for example, about the first kiss. This reminiscence looks romantically and a little fondly. And here to you it is not necessary to go into details of the first and the subsequent sexual contacts or features former even if the guy actively asks. In the future these data can be used against you. It is not necessary to discuss the addictions which are available for you also. Modern young people for the long relations more often choose the girls who are not loving night clubs, seldom visiting parties and not taking alcohol. Such behavior is caused by the nature: they intuitively look for healthy mother for the children. If you like to sit in the smoke-filled cafe or to drink wines in the good company, begin from far away. Ask the guy on his relation to such pastime and decide what should be replaced: way of rest or young man. Talking to the guy, do not forget also about his person. Ask questions, be interested in a hobby, work, study, the attitude towards dear people and friends. The main thing at communication: keep a positive, good mood and try to be frank.