Many girls like to gossip and bandy mutual friends. Especially brightly it is shown if the conversation comes about beloveds or young people who drew attention.
The girl thinks of you
Girls discuss people to whom they are not indifferent. The relation to an object of a talk can be both positive, and negative, but not indifferent. If the girl often speaks about you, perhaps, you are pleasant or struck with something her. You with mutual friends the girl wants to draw with constant discussion your attention.
She wants to learn about you as much as possible. Therefore the girl begins to speak about you with people who are familiar with you. Your friends, colleagues and relatives will tell her what she would never learn, and thus the girl will open for herself new sides of your personality. Also, asking on you other people, your girlfriend can find out secrets in which you would not like to devote her.
Discussion of problems
Young women often talk about the darlings to girlfriends. If you meet, it is quite natural that the girl discusses you with close people, you occupy her thoughts, and your girlfriend cannot but speak about the love. Perhaps, the girl is proud of your acts. If she is overflowed by emotions, she will discuss your achievements with the family and friends. The girl by all means will tell mother what heights you achieved, especially if you are not pleasant to her relatives. So she emphasizes that she made a right choice. Besides some young women just like to brag to girlfriends.
She discusses problems
Also other reason that the girl constantly discusses you is possible. It can not like something in your behavior. She wants to change a situation, and it needs council of close people as it is better to make it. The girl can doubt that, how correctly you behave. More objectively to assess a situation, it needs a look from outside. If you offended your girlfriend, she can complain of you to the relatives. The wounds given by darling, the deepest. Therefore to get rid of hurt, the girl can discuss your acts with other people. If you left recently, but the girl continues to speak about you, so she still did not forget you and, perhaps, wants to begin the relations anew. It is pleasant not to all when they are discussed behind their back. Talk to the girl and explain that such talk is unpleasant to you. If your girlfriend tells strangers all secrets of your private life, explain to her that it is unethical. You should not take out your relationship on a public inspection, it is your private affairs. Discussing you with others, your girl lets in these people your personal space. Tell her that you would not like to do it.