Philosophers, people from art and other Aesculapians of souls for centuries tried to find a clue of the nature of men's unfaithfulness. Why the man who entered a love match and was sure of the fidelity, fools around? How it is possible to regard suddenly the come silence of feelings and hearts? What provokes treason of the husband: temptation, boredom or eternal search of an ideal? It is possible to formulate still a set of questions, in each case there will be the reason.
Some – "just have not enough", at others – "eyes run up", the third, – changing, prove own viability, the fourth – do not find it necessary to keep silent in response to obvious sympathies in the address, the fifth the risk element, illusion of romanticism which so lacks them in life attracts, the sixth – elementary desire to have a good time. Not to measure by a uniform measure of all and there are no accurate psychological indexes in this respect, "watch a pier attentively, it seems, it will be incorrect". However, sometimes, elementary knowledge of psychology allows to depict any given type of men who will fool around.
The first in the What Men Change? list - "Philanderer". It is important to it to make the perhaps bigger number of women. In it its consists "the vital program": to get acquainted, interest, arrange, to attract, win and get to fall in love. It is not necessary to count on the further relations with such man because this most "further" just is absent in his plans. He or comes back to the wife, or goes to hunting for new beauties. Not angry "philanderer", he is just a lady-killer. This such role and, according to him, other development of the relations was not offered to you. In ordinary life this type of men though differs in diligence, but seldom tries to obtain recognition: the all-consuming passion for new "tops" in warm affairs too disturbs. "My one and only care was in achieving absolute happiness, certainly, – in the relations with women. Search was both long, and useless, but I still wait …".
The second type of men who fool around - "Ladies' man". It would seem, well to what an offensive epithet, and self-satisfied representatives of this breed consider it almost a compliment. They are hunters too, but, unlike "Philanderers", not idealists. Besides have more clear motives behind which, as a rule, nothing high is found. Lady's men in search of pleasures forget not only about the wife or the girlfriend, but also about different vital things, for example, about health. They other opinion: "Ladies' man? – means, I love women, I understand that it is necessary to them, I am able to look after so that it was pleasant to both …"
More sophisticated than "Philanderers" and "Ladies' men" fool around "Ladies' men". They cannot just live without women's society. It is necessary their lawful darlings not with pleasure, from time to time observing as husbands grow stout in smiles, having seen interesting "feature" in the fitting dress and on heels hairpins. They hurry to help it on with the coat (to open a door, to bring the lighter), she favors in reply a radiant smile, and the spouse understands that only its presence helps to avoid promising acquaintance. Who knows how many such situations were in the past (will be in the future) … And some time ago the spouse herself also came across the same rod. As her man was artistic as he is inventive in jokes and compliments! Yes, similar "Ladies' men" cannot attract to themselves interest, and then as soon as desire appears, to begin to reap its sweet fruits. "I am married to the young attractive girl, but it does not mean that all others are indifferent for me. I have no task, to tempt them, I just try to be attentive …"
But most often the men who are simply considering themselves beautiful ("Narcissuses") fool around …. And at all not because it is easier for them to get acquainted or take up with the pleasant woman. Unlike "Ladies' men", it is more important to "Narcissuses" to see adoration, probably, – as the next recognition of own irresistibility. And for the sake of this adoration they have a ball. Many female hearts began to tremble with a look from a "lukavinky" or Hollywood smile, forcing the owners to lose the head and not to take into consideration other party of a medal at all, namely the fact that for a narcissus there is only one incredibly attractive person – he. "My friend reconciled to my unfaithfulness for a long time, she learned to accept my popularity at ladies, and understands how she difficult to me is sometimes to resist to their impact …"
"Autumn Casanova" closes the list of the men's types which are fooling around. And it is the situation, most difficult for female mentality, - "there is no fool like an old fool". The good family man who is not noticed hitherto in the discrediting communications becomes quarrelsome, captious and … it is, – incorrect! "Why?" and "for what?" are confused in the head of the legal wife, disgusting so far "with whom?" does not get the best of all other question marks. "With whom?" – yes with the girl who is younger than it for twenty years … Alas, but such unplanned unfaithfulness of "gray-haired lions" happens quite often. "I as soon as saw it, understood at once what can still be as it should be. Lovely, gentle, graceful – with such anyone will feel the superman …"