Having married, the girl can sigh, relax and tell with relief aloud or about herself: "At last it mine!" And in vain. Men do not love when they treat them, as to property.
The woman can hurry and choose not that the satellite of which she dreamed
The main mistake which the woman can make, marrying - it is to marry not that man whom waited for all life. Whether it is worth running in a registry office at once if the man is rich, in a bed it was the amazing lover, and makes "a proposal of marriage"? Perhaps, it is worth living with it a civil marriage that to know it better? If "inspection" is carried out and the "civil" husband is suitable for joint life, the woman can make a number of mistakes being already a wife.
Attitude towards the husband as property
The wedding ended, there passed the first remarkable marriage night, the stamp about marriage in the passport costs. Ahead happy long life with the beloved. And the wife begins to relax, sometimes not in very good sense. She considers that time the husband belongs to it, he has to live as it seems to it correct: to have sex in certain time, always to bring it a breakfast in bed, to put on as she advises.
And at the same time forgets what deals not with a toy, and with the living person who lived to it 20, 30 or more years independently. That he has ideas of life in general, and about marriage in particular.
Attempts to change it under "itself"
The wife begins to take offense, be capricious and demand from the husband of performance of the desires. The man can concede time or two, and then will begin to be irritated and object. Considering that the husband is not brought absolutely correctly up, the spouse will try to change him. That he left off smoking, never drank, among friends was "soul of the company" and still – is indifferent to soccer.
Any fishing and soccer!
When the wife does not release darling with friends on fishing or soccer, she does not even suspect that she encroaches on the most sacred in life of the man: on the right to live own life. To spend time as he got used to do it sometimes.
Irrepressible jealousy
And still the wife can constantly begin to watch own husband. To look through its correspondence, the list of contacts in the telephone directory, every minute to call it when it not houses. Such behavior will tire even the most loving person. But apogee of such mistake is the house hysterics of the wife. The husband came home from work, wants to eat, take off from himself clothes and to relax. But the wife begins to ask immediately why so long it was not why he such silent also does not rejoice to a meeting with it, to demand a detailed report with whom he spent today. And if the hungry spouse reminds of a dinner, to arrange it a hysterics.
The woman stops watching herself at home
She just considers that now it is optional to do it. The wedding was held, the husband – here he, nearby. Will not get to anywhere. It is possible at home and in a dressing gown to resemble, forget about a pedicure. And in vain. If the woman really loves the man, she is afraid to lose him. And therefore every day lives with darling as though it is the last day. Protects it, admires it, puts on as he loves.
She constantly reproaches the husband for small salary
One more serious mistake which the wife can make – to begin to reproach the husband that he earns a little. There are many reasons because of which the spouse does not manage to earn enough money for comfortable life at once. If the man tries to find himself, constantly tries "to break through upward", then there is nothing more offensively at this moment, than reproaches of the wife.