The most widespread phrases at acquaintance - not always the most appropriate and successful. Nevertheless, statistically, the vast majority of persons interested to get acquainted use these phrases. Scientists made interesting attempt: it was offered to several groups of girls and young people to paraphrase some of the most widespread phrases or to think up others, but faithful. Then the efficiency of these new options was checked.
The most widespread phrases
According to reviews of sociologists, today the most widespread phrase at acquaintance is the phrase "To you the help is not required?". Further go one after another: "What charming child at you, all in mother (father)!", "It is possible to learn your phone", "To give a ride to you?", "You will not prompt how many time?". The popularity of these phrases does not mean, however, their high efficiency. According to psychologists, these phrases demand the smallest expenses of energy less invention. About originality, clear, the speech does not go too. Actually, the final purpose of these questions is to induce questioned to further joint action. Thus, the young man or the girl wants to find out whether there are chances of acquaintance continuation, whether there is a positive response from a sympathy object.
"The help is not required to you?"
The phrase is reformulated in possible continuation "You probably, were tired since your image does not abandon me the whole day". This option is amusing the fact that it means your preliminary acquaintance or sympathy. And also the fact that you were rather reasonable not to stick at the time of the first look. Also this option uses the assumption that long mental contemplation of an object of sympathy results in physical fatigue of that on whom reflect. What was reaction to such question? It is interesting that, generally it varied from "Oh, it is frivolous" and "Oh, is not present" before simple leaving somewhere far away from questioning.
"What charming child at you, all in mother (father)!"
It was paraphrased in "You are beautiful as the angel who descended from heaven". At the same time, well-known, what name or a name of an angel fallen from heaven in bible days. Did you already guess? Exactly. It turns out that you just called an object of the desires the demon. In general, it is not new, on the one hand. With another – it is clear that when someone is called an angel, mean images of harmonious people of Renaissance, and the flying sphere which is not shining at all what perhaps and the angel heavenly would be. At the same time researches showed that people indulgently treat the idea to hear about themselves something demonic. And girls are very happy to hear about themselves something it seems "You are a demonic woman".
"It is possible to learn your phone?"
On replacement it was offered "I forgot the number, it is possible to learn yours?". I.e. it is clear that you from those who can forget the number. There is a question - how often the person calls himself? It is also clear that now to define reference number as easy as shelling pears. It is displayed on the screen of cellular, there are special applications for such purposes. Thus, the most probable is the assumption that asking it was so struck with appearance and emergence of an object of sympathies that forgot not only the name, but also the phone number. Practice shows that in response to such question the phone number is not provided. Though the option quite effective if it is combined with a treat in the form of drink and is addressed to the young girls who came to club to get acquainted. Following the results of researches, many experts in the field of relationship of the man and woman consider that the phrases which are most extended at acquaintance are nearly the worst of possible. Nevertheless, on prevalence of use they are in the lead already many years.