Despite general belief that women are auditory, this statement is fair also for men. That the passion did not weaken, and the men's self-assessment remained at the level, do not forget to tell to the beloved pleasant things.
Whether compliments are necessary to men?
It is all about perception, women got used to compliments, for them it is simply pleasant not meaning words nothing, men perceive a compliment as motivation to action. Besides to the place the told compliment works with a peculiar gingerbread and can promote fixing of some positive habit.
Compliments are necessary for the stronger sex as air. But you should not go to far in them, otherwise the overpraised man can begin to look down on people around. Well, or will suspect you, for example, of insincerity. And especially paranoid men can apprehend abundance of compliments as sign of incorrectness. Yes, here such here men's logic. The good compliment has to be rather well-turned.
Main phrases
""From where you such (fine, clever, careful) undertook? ""Ask this question more often. Any man cannot leave sincere interest in the person without response. So, you can hear the detailed or playful answer to this question. Men like to talk about themselves, but pride does not allow them to do it without cause. ""Advise me as it is correct to make something"". This request will show to the man that you consider him competent of any question. It will force even the most modest man to take pride. And you, asking council, you can explain in addition why you addressed it. Do not forget to mention complexity of business and also wide experience of the man in the solution of problems. Only do not address for council for an occasion of frank nonsense, it can be perceived by unnecessary coquetry, and the man can take offense. ""You have such beautiful jumper (tie, the car, a case)! ""Admire what is expensive to your man. Admiration of things will allow to give in passing couple of compliments, to praise taste of the man or to admire his sense of proportion. Only do not do it too often as in this case the series of compliments can false sound.
But never compare the man to former. It can lead to serious problems.
""You are ideal! ""Compare the man to those who are dear to you. Practically any man will thaw from positive comparison with your father, especially if you emphasize what advantages are inherent in both your father, and the man. You do not stint compliments with a double bottom.
If is reasoned to explain to the man why you love flowers or white chocolate, probability is high that he will give you flowers and candies more often than once a year.
Men not too love criticism, but if to give it a compliment shape, to sugar the pill, then it is possible to achieve big progress. Never do compliments with "but". For example, "you are such good fellow that washed the dishes, but for some reason forgot about a pan on a plate". Tell better "I washed a pan which was on a plate, but you are such good fellow that saved me from need to wash other the dishes". This rule, by the way, concerns not only compliments to the beloved. If in this way to formulate thoughts at communication with the rest of the world, the effect will be stunning.