If the girl shy, constraining at heart, communication with the new acquaintance can turn into a serious problem. And then in a conversation with the guy there will be awkward pauses, and it will hardly promote development of the relations. On such case it is always necessary to hold several questions which the guy can set in the head.
Instruction
1. It is the best of all to collect more information on the guy previously. If you know what its tastes, hobbies as he prefers to spend free time to what music he listens, it will be easier for you to strike up a conversation and to draw its attention. Then ask it the questions concerning his hobbies, a hobby. It will be best of all.
2. If you could not or did not want to find such information, can frankly ask it: "And of what you are fond?" In the presence at you is common interests, a hobby, consider that you were lucky. And it will be possible to ask questions with skill, without being afraid to get into an awkward situation, and the young man for certain will be delighted, having found a soulmate.
3. A good subject for a talk – carrying out leisure. At the beginning of your acquaintance you can ask the guy where he likes to have a rest, spend vacation (either a holiday, or New year, etc.). Here it is only very important to show sensitivity, financial opportunities at all people different. And if it turns out that you already visited many countries, and the young man never was abroad, it can put him in an awkward situation. Therefore try that your question did not sound so: "I already was there, there and there, and you?."
4. If the young man works, can ask him several questions concerning the place of work, its functions. Here too you should not be too meticulous. Be not interested in the amount of its salary at all. It will make an unpleasant impression.
5. "The way to heart of the man lies through a stomach" - almost sure bet of a conversation – cookery. Take an interest what dishes he especially loves. And if it turns out that you are able to prepare well them, it can be useful very much to you further.
6. It is also possible to ask the questions concerning favourite movies, actors, musicians. Try not to show to the guy of the negative relation if it turns out that your tastes are opposite.