In recent years more often people use dating sites to construct the relations or to find the partner in life. Prior to the first personal meeting the interlocutors usually some time correspond to recognize each other closer.
Instruction
1. Some participants of dating sites try not to leave any information on themselves in the questionnaire. And in the course of exchange of messages it is possible to learn as far as the person is interesting to you to avoid disappointment on the first appointment and not to spend time for nothing. Therefore it is important to understand what questions should be asked at acquaintance on the Internet.
2. Ask how many years to your interlocutor. Perhaps, your age difference is too big, and it does not make sense to continue communication. However the woman of such questions should not set, especially at the very beginning of communication.
3. Take an interest in marital status of your new acquaintance. Certainly, it is personal information, but people come to dating sites in search of the relations therefore the question of family will be quite appropriate.
4. Learn about education and work. So you will understand, your social status is how close. Besides you can be colleagues or it can become clear that you graduated from the same HIGHER EDUCATION INSTITUTION. It will a little bring together you and will give additional subjects for communication. Ask why your acquaintance chose this profession whether it is pleasant to him, whether he loves the work and collective. You will understand whether accepts the person him work or his profession – a source of constant stresses, and there can be it the workaholic who is eternally vanishing in office. You should not bring up a question of salary. Certainly, the welfare of the person matters, but it is possible to learn about financial position later at personal meetings.
5. Ask the interlocutor on his hobbies. It is fine if your interests are similar, but you should not be upset if you, for example, like to read books, and your acquaintance does not. People with different hobbies perfectly live together. But it is necessary to learn about the hobbies demanding the lot of time and money. Or your acquaintance can be the fan of extreme sports. Present that you got married also your three children. Whether you are ready to allow a long absence of the husband whether agree to allocate funds from the general budget for his hobbies and incessantly to worry about his health?
6. If you correspond not the first day, and communication is pleasant to you, can ask more private matters. Take an interest what shortcomings at your interlocutor and whether he has addictions. The chance that the person will change, is small. Therefore think whether you are ready to live all life, for example, with the smoking man. Also you will be able to estimate, your interlocutor is how self-critical.
7. Questions of plans one future better to postpone until a personal meeting. It is quite possible that they will change with the advent of you in life of your acquaintance.