Tenderness — the major female quality. This quality helps to hold difficult relations, to soften critical moments. Tenderness — one of the main components of true love.
It is difficult to answer what defines tenderness of the woman. There is an opinion that tenderness is an accumulated feeling, when there is no an object for its application, it is saved and saved. Many lonely women and girls complain of the pressing feeling which cannot be put into words, perhaps, quite so and tenderness which could not be transmitted is expressed.
Having found the man, the woman begins to shroud him in tenderness. This emotion is shown in everything — from touches before cooking. It is expressed even tender nicknames which the girl gives to the elect.
Usually men notice spontaneous flashes of tenderness, including their significant though the atmosphere of care, love and heat tells much more about "stability" of feelings of the woman.
There are two types of tenderness — constant and spontaneous. The constant shrouds all surrounding space around the woman as a certain force field. All who get to it immediately feel heat, affability, sympathy. This fine feeling which is extended around herself by the happy, woman in love. Spontaneous tenderness is expressed in peculiar attacks, such minutes of the girl remind big cats who make up to the darlings, trying to achieve the maximum contact.
Sometimes women are afraid to express the emotions in this way, then they resort to rough, almost familiar gestures. Very difficult behind similar masks to make out true, gentle female nature. The modern world in which the right and a duty were reserved for women "to be strong", discredits tenderness, including it weakness.
Tender tenderness of the woman is extended to the children. It is possible to tell that all relations between mother and the child are constructed on it. It is the simplest to accept and feel tenderness as the most clear component of love.
The word "gentle" it is accepted to describe fleeting, passing things — a melody, night, a dessert...
It is curious that definition "gentle" is very seldom abstract and comprehensive. Very few people use designs "the gentle person", "the gentle woman". It is all about subjectivity of perception. Tenderness is always directed to someone. Even if all people in a certain group are influenced "the field of tenderness", its prime cause — in someone concrete. The others just catch surplus of emotions.