Do you ask – why to create barriers and to wish the person who exists somewhere there, behind the illusive screen of the monitor? In words there is a great sense, many cannot find love real what to speak about virtual? Nevertheless, to learn what the virtual love and for what is it brings, it is interesting to all. Well, or almost everything.
Any living being wants it to be loved. Yes, about dog devotion all remembered. With people it is much more difficult. To achieve reciprocity, people make mad acts, joking, destroy families, break habits and risk life. Though, no, died for the sake of love once, but not now. But, presently the person learned to create a web from one thousand feelings and feelings, to divide all this on the verge in which then it is easy to get lost. What for? For the sake of emotions.
It is very simple to be deceived. For everyone the love. At someone these concepts are erased, and one word causes a contemptuous smile. Believe, in such hedgehog the little girl almost always sits and cries. To love the real person, means to live with his problems, to touch his body, to listen to a voice, to fill up in one bed. Already every day. Without it, it is the law of human life in any way. It is possible, of course, and not to love, but heat, support, feeling that you not one – all this is necessary, and has to be only present. Any communication, any contact or action takes place at the level of instincts which lead either to the union, or to emptiness.
Present a situation. You are an adult, you have children and the husband, but once you understand that harmless correspondence on the Internet changed all your life. The person who lives for thousands of kilometers and whom you never saw becomes to relatives and the family. Hm. If desired, it is possible to achieve everything anything, but.
The first myth. Amuse yourself with hope. You created this "proximity", the person on that side – a fruit of your imagination. It is simply pleasant, it meets your expectations, after all, it approaches under all flavoring preferences as favourite candy in shop. A thought that it has shortcomings the intolerable character or the wife and a lot of children, does not concern you. What occurs? Communication finds special coloring. Here it is necessary to consider some trifles: for you each word the becomes sign, and for it is just letters. What should I do? To delete from life or to tell everything directly. In reality, looking in eyes, so not everyone will be able, and here to write – in easy. In it and charm of the virtual relations. Delicate hints, a game, deception, belief in an ideal that can be better? For the sake of an ideal all is also started.
If as the victim the woman, she usually feels at once reaction, but it never stops because words climb, pour, as from a fragmentary bag. The most interesting, first the virtual sympathy turns the head, then it becomes a little. It is good if the virtual partner (partners are different and) with you on one wave if he holds the fort, a puzzle does not develop. Oh yes more powerful final is possible here: you begin to call it love, really are ill and go crazy. Whether it is good? Controversial issue. Feelings give a new drink, it is not boring for you, yes? Exit: wait when bothers. If you are ill long, suggests an idea whether you know.
The second myth. If it was here. If it was here, nothing would leave. I who found the husband in the Internet speak about it. We do not forget about difficulties. If you are lonely, then yes – a flag in hands, perhaps, it is love, but, be not afraid to be disappointed at a meeting. We speak about sick attachment. Sometimes the meeting in reality becomes medicine. But just it is better to put the head under a cold shower, to drink a bottle of vodka and to cut down the Internet for few months. Does not help? Many people are not able to love the living person, I congratulate that clever man who could achieve such emotions via the monitor screen.
The third myth. I do not need nothing. It is necessary. Perhaps, not right now, but then, all this has to bring somewhere. Frankly ask a question – why to you excess care of someone who does not participate in your life in any way will never be able to come into doors and to embrace? Yes, statistically, married women are practically not exposed to similar states.
Why we love at distance:
- 1 – boredom. Flirtation and flirting in that case quickly take place, love disappears at once as soon as there is a heap of affairs.
- 2 – Sexual inclination. For similar affairs use dating sites where quickly find what is required.
- 3 Sincere draft. The contact can last for years, but the meeting is almost impossible as after real acquaintance all charm of similar communication will disappear.
- 4 Having happened, and having found similar interests, people begin to communicate without sexual implication. Over time, similar communication can become closer, lead to the serious relations.
It is necessary to divide concepts virtual love and virtual acquaintances. Acquaintances mean only corporal contact, and love, it is love. Be careful. Kind of it is ridiculous sounded, from virtual love dependence stronger, than in reality. Do what you consider correct. If you deceive yourself – everything will pass over time. If is not present, then is not present.