To learn that the loved one changes you – means to experience deep nervous shock. The first minutes after such opening, as a rule, there comes shock. In the head of the deceived woman the set of meek questions turns (as it is possible why it happened to me, etc.). But later a short period of time the rationalism gets the best of emotions, and she should solve a practical problem: what to do next.
When choosing the correct decision it is necessary to remember that for many men the fleeting affair is banal desire to bring a variety the sexual life, it is some kind of doping for support of the harmonious family relations. Therefore it is only worth thinking of parting in case you equate physical treason to spiritual. If the perfidy of the spouse becomes for you a cataract in an eye for the rest of life, family idyll will hardly turn out. Therefore, it is kind of regrettable sounded, but it is necessary to leave the person who betrayed you (first of all for own peace of mind). Of course, at first it will be hard for you: modern psychologists claim that finally the person can be restored after sincere wounds only later a half of term during which it had relations. That is, for example, if you lived with the husband year, then for restoration of peace of mind you need not less than 6 months … In case you consider that you are able to stop the husband's hellbenders before taking some actions, be carefully prepared. Think over the behavior and phrases which you address to the light-headed traitor, and scroll various options of your dialogue in mind. At the same time it is necessary to proceed from psychological type which your spouse treats. You should not swear at the strong in spirit man – it will be more correct to put on a mask of the unfortunate victim and even slightly to cry. If your husband by the nature is rather soft and the leader in your matrimonial relations are you, then it is possible to arrange him "beating". Thus like people information reaches before quicker. If you value the family relations, that you know, it is possible and to keep silent if the behavior of the spouse in relation to you did not change (he still "warm and fuzzy"). But if you long looked for an occasion to break off the family bonds with the maximum benefit, then the best scenario of succession of events could not be thought up. Behave indifferently, slowly collecting the evidence of its unfaithfulness. Thanks to the seized evidence you will have every chance to seize a part of the fortune from the husband as you act as the victim and the judge for 95% will be on your party.