For the girl a break with darling – a hard blow. Especially, if she is thrown without any explanations, claims, reproaches. Simply: "Between us everything is over!", or: "You are not necessary to me any more!".
The woman, especially emotional, impressionable, at this moment feels so as if the whole world was up in arms against her. Shock. Shock. Sincere misunderstanding: how could it happen? And then, often there comes the deep depression. And it is good still if the dumped girlfriend does not begin to seek consolation in alcohol or that it is worse - in drugs! It is necessary to get it together and to understand: life on it does not come to an end! The fact that any specific guy did not appreciate it it is his problems. On light there are quite enough good, decent guys capable to fall in love with it and to make happy. After all, the one who threw girl, does not cost her tears and experiences.
Yes, their relations came to the end. More it will not be near. But maybe, it is just good for the girl? Now she has more free time, it is possible to communicate much to the family, to girlfriends, to walk on shops, to live happily, at last! To find to itself some interesting hobby, somewhere to go, see the world.
And here what the girl definitely should not do – continuously to be sorry for, to look for sympathy at the family and girlfriends. Of course, will regret! Sincerely, with all the heart. Even will cry together with it, lamenting: ah, for what to you such grief, ah, what all men of the swine. As a result the depression of the girl will only be aggravated. Besides, it should not too actively "dig in itself", reflecting: can be, and she was guilty too? Yes, most likely, was, the gap very seldom happens because of only one party. But the guy quite could try to have a talk with it, to frankly tell that he in it is not pleasant to him. Time preferred to throw, so it is not really expensive to it and was. Whether it is possible to call it darling in that case? Of course, no! Then to what this remorse, excessive self-criticism? The girl should call to the aid common sense and to treat break in relations as to unpleasant, heavy, bitter, but very useful lesson. Such tests temper people, do them stronger and wiser. Of course, it is necessary to consider the mistakes not to repeat them in the future. When she meets the one who will fall in love with it really, with all its merits and demerits.