Even happy marriage can break up if to your spouse other woman met, and you are not guilty of it. What to do in that case – to reconcile, try to hold the spouse or to release him to the new beloved – each woman has to solve it, considering the recommendations of psychologists.
Even happy marriages can collapse and if the husband fell in love with another, you do not blame either yourself, or darling for the incident. How to break a situation what in that case to do and whether it is worth "saving" family, to solve already not only to you. Try to call the spouse on serious straight talk, without being beyond in communication tactfulness and politeness. It is better to talk to the husband quietly, without reproaches, grandiose scandals and without the increased tones, forgetting about obscene expressions. The serious and quiet conversation will allow you to learn its further intentions and to define what operations should be performed. In case the spouse fell in love with other woman, use the female cunning, finding out at the beloved very carefully that after all attracts him in your competitor. But excessive persistence in questions and further roughness of you will lead only to failure therefore it is necessary to work skillfully. If you manage to understand why after the happy years lived together darling cooled down to you and began to look for the new passion, you get a chance "to stick together" family, having changed a situation in own favor. Even if you the ideal wife, try to become a little better, using in practice of quality, inherent in your competitor.
But if the spouse fell in love with another really and seeks to start a family from the new beloved, to hold him near itself simply senselessly. Release darling, do not organize a squabble during parting, and do not try to organize any "serious talk" and scandals with his new beloved – such actions you only drop the authority on eyes of the spouse, already almost former. Show it that you are attractive and happy, are the real personality and can quite live also without it. File independently one divorce better, showing to the spouse that you do not intend to hold at all him though it and is sick. And then try to vanish, organize a party for the girlfriends, you go to theater or cinema, register in occupations in fitness club, be engaged in shopping, change appearance in beauty shop. Perhaps, for years of marriage which seemed such happy you just ceased to watch yourself, having forgotten that you – not only the wife, but also the personality? Erase the husband traitor from memory, remember the most negative sides of his character, mentally ornament shortcomings of the former spouse in the brightest paints, and obligatory it will become easier for you.