Love - feeling creative and fine, only if it is not directed towards the girl, being the passion of the best friend. In such situation not to do without problems. Someone will always remain superfluous. There is no universal decision here, it should be taken into accountit should be taken into account very well everything before to undertake something.
The subject of the relations occurs in many works of art.
Two feelings accompany the person on all his course of life. Sometimes it seems that life is simply inconceivable without love and friendship.
From time immemorial the question of essence of love and friendship was relevant. And any person cannot answer more exhaustively him and it is not possible. For everyone – the definition. At everyone – the love, the friendship.
Love against friendship
Often there are situations when feelings of love and friendship face in opposition. It is about when the guy shows sympathy and interest in the girlfriend of the best friend or on the contrary. It is impossible to understand to whom in this history it is heavier: all three become hostages of a situation. It is the best, the most beautiful, fine, lovely and graceful. It dreams at the nights, its silhouette seems continually. It cannot just be forgotten. But on the other hand the friend – real, reliable and true. With him it is possible both in fire, and in water. It would seem, here it is the true male friendship, and there is no wish to lose it.
How to resolve a situation
The young people who got to a love triangle seek to resolve current situation as soon as possible. Some address for councils parents, others friends, and the third go also to psychologists. In all three cases usually opinions differ. Female girlfriends advise to continue to fight for the love at any cost, and the friend … The friend, if real, then, understands and will accept! Men, on the contrary, support friendship preservation. The friend will not betray, will not leave anywhere, will not exchange. And true friends, in principle, are not much. So it is necessary to value that who will always be near. As for opinion of psychologists, they advise to understand, first of all, themselves.
What it is more important? Perhaps after all not "that" girl, and, maybe, the friend – at all not the friend. The subject is rather difficult, and someone all the same will remain to "third wheels".
Ways of solving the problem can be different. It is possible to tell about everything to the friend and to discuss with him current situation. Perhaps, together it will turn out to find a solution. The friend, to keep your close spiritual communications, can try that your meetings with this girl were minimized. Friendship by friendship, and the relations have to remain personal. Perhaps eventually without seeing this girl, thoughts of it will gradually leave. In a situation when the relations between young people not really good also are on the verge of a gap, the friend can be not against that you began to look after his girl. Other exit – to try to switch attention to other girls. Who knows, maybe, then and that with which it will want to carry out all life will meet. And if the love for this girl is so strong, and you are sure that it is better than it you will meet nobody, then it is worth working. Naturally, it is necessary to consider also the girl's attitude towards you. Yes, with the friend, perhaps, it is necessary will quarrel, but you will find family.