The woman statistically changes three times less than the man. If to say about the family relations, that is probability that the husband, but not the wife will change. However there are situations in which the woman who is in marriage can go for treason. How to behave in such situation?
What to do if fooled around
Women's treason is perceived by society more strictly, than men's. Such perception traces the roots back to psychological features of the personality. The man at heart poligamen therefore his unfaithfulness is only manifestation of an instinct of the hunter. The woman is monogamous and ready for the choice of the only partner for creation of strong family. In modern society you will surprise with women's treason nobody, it became the norm of public morals. After treason you are in depression of spirit, feel guilty of everything. However it is still possible to correct.
Find the treason reason
Any woman will not change just like that. There has to be a reason of such behavior from its party. If it is family and the long relations. First, it is important to calm down and analyze a situation from the objective point of view. You should not tell about your treason even to the closest girlfriend. Remember what you had feelings when you decided to fool around. What moved you? If it were the negative emotions connected with the intense relations in family then you understand that you made a mistake and it is necessary to correct it. Secondly, analyze behavior of the spouse in relation to you as to the woman. Perhaps, the sexual heat died away, and you were tired from each other. It is in that case better to try to diversify sexual life in any ways.
Happens so that the spouse oversteps the bound of humiliations and insults in relation to the wife. Here and it is not necessary to think what to do if changed such person. It is normal reaction of mentality to negative impact from outside. An exit – to run from such man. The farther, the better. However if you after all consider that you made a fatal flaw, then it is necessary to correct it. On it forces and time will be required.
As to correct everything
The woman after treason long solves, to speak to the husband or not about the incident. In the matter it is necessary to be very accurate as only strongly loving man can forgive treason, but not the fact. It is better to hide for some time and to observe behavior of the spouse. You should not show how you strongly love and you care. Such strange behavior can suggest different ideas. It is better to behave with the husband, as always. There will pass time, and you will understand what to do next. If you suffer the fact that you fooled around, then sooner or later you admit. Such is female nature. After such recognition the reaction of the man can be very different - from aggression to tranquility. You will need to collect all will in a fist and to sustain a counter pressure. Then leave the husband alone with the thoughts. The man needs more time to classify everything. You need to have patience if you love the spouse. When he analyzes everything, will make the positive or negative decision in your party. Sometimes the man is capable to forgive to the woman treason, but it will already be other level of the relations. Therefore ten times think before changing as it is always easy to destroy, and to build - on the contrary.