Some parents unconditionally accept any choice of the son in the relations with girls, and some try to find of the passion of the child various faults. If yours mother and the father speak negatively your soulmate, it is possible to fight against it.
How to be if parents do not like the girl?
If you are in love with the girl, and after acquaintance to parents, they oppose her, you should not arrange scandals and to say that you choose not them, but it. Remember that parents are the dearest people in your life (of course before you have own children) therefore in such situation you should not refuse them at all. Arrive more wisely. Talk to mother and the father, explain to them as strongly you love them and you respect their opinion, but also they have to listen to your emotions and feelings. Tell parents about that how many high qualities at your soulmate and find out that in her does not suit them. Most likely, they will answer your question, you will understand what causes their osterezheniye. After that you can organize a conversation with the girlfriend and explain to her that your parents are not happy with some moments in her behavior. If she really loves you, she will surely make efforts to change and be pleasant to your family. Perhaps, she has some addictions which she should refuse for the sake of your joint future, or, for example, she behaves is too liberated that too can be corrected easily.
Because of what parents can not like the girl?
Understand that the negative to your soulmate can be caused by the different reasons. The first of them is a banal jealousy. Just your family is afraid that from the beginning of the serious relations, you will cease to pay them attention, and will spend all the free time only with the passion. Surround the parents with attention and care, let them know that despite appearance of other person in your life, they all the same forever will remain for you the closest and dear people.
The second reason of parental hostility to the girl - the negative statements of society about it and her family. If before mother and the father did not manage to get acquainted with your soulmate, correct a situation and, as soon as possible, organize their meeting. Let they will communicate to the person to whom you gave the heart and will be convinced that all words told by the third parties - only the rumors which are not confirmed with the real facts. You will take from this acquaintance also one more plus - parents will understand that you not only trust them, but also treat the beloved from full gravity, but do not consider the relation with it the next affair.