Some married men sometimes create novels on the party. They seldom become attached to the mistresses, and here women can fall in love with married really.
Before beginning the relations with the married man, you have to think of how the deceived wife will feel. Put yourself on its place, you would hardly like a situation in which your spouse would betray you with other lady. You never have to treat other people as would not like that you treated you.
How to treat the beloved if he is married?
If you meet the married man and really love him, you can temporarily try to forget about his spouse. Just continue to build the relations, you never know, than your novel will end. Perhaps, over time he will fall in love with you too and will leave family. Live happily and enjoy every minute, carried out with the soulmate. Behave adequately, show it that you it is much better than his spouse that you - that woman who will be able to make him happy. Remember that you have to be patient, for certain at you rather long time on expectation of reciprocal feelings of your lover will leave.
If you understand that your married lover has to you strong feelings too, fight for him. Of course, your friends and acquaintances can claim unanimously that nothing good from this will leave, but in rules sometimes there are also exceptions. Men often enter early marriages, making mistakes. Perhaps, you came up against such situation, and only now your man understands what is the true and sincere love.
What to do if the married lover does not show reciprocal feelings?
Not always affairs with married men come to an end with mutual love. Agreeing to a similar adventure, you initially have to train yourself that all your illusions can be vain. Be a realist and do not make grandiose plans for the joint future. If your novel lasted long enough, and the man did not start talking about the love, hardly over time something will change. Try to forget and release the person who does not give you reciprocity. You will never be able to become happy near the one who does not wish to have with you nothing in common, except the sexual relations. Look back on the parties, perhaps, among your friends and acquaintances there is a worthy applicant for your hand and heart. Try to fall in love with yourself and to know the own worth. The woman respecting herself will be able to achieve everything that she will want.