The first year after the child's birth quite difficult for parents. They get used that now in the house there is a person for whom it is necessary to care constantly. And not always mother and the father have enough forces to cope with all difficulties.
Very often the men who became for a while the only getters in family turn to work with the trebled force. They sit up late, charge themselves with additional duties to earn more for the beloved wife and the kid. And, of course, having come home, they very much want to have a rest. And it is impossible because children about one year often cry. Gripes, a teething and even just weather affect behavior of the kid. And who manages to calm the child at once seldom. Crying continues in the days and at the nights, irritating the tired father. In this case parents need to talk about what to undertake that the irritation did not increase every day.
If the child cries without pacifier - give him it. Sosatelny movements help the kid to calm down. If necessary, when the kid will grow up, it is possible to disaccustom to a pacifier easily.
If the child cries in the afternoon, it is possible to lay him in a carriage and to go to walk. Very often measured rocking and change of a situation calm the kid, he falls asleep. If shout is caused by any external factors - growth of milk teeth, gripes, a SARS, etc. - surely give to the kid medicine, do not wait that everything will pass. So you not only facilitate to it growing process, but also will allow the child's father to have a rest quietly. Take the kid on hands, put to yourself on a tummy. Most likely, he will quickly calm down.
The father has to remember that mother also, and sometimes more, is tired. Therefore she needs to give the chance to have a rest. Walks on days off will help to come into contact with the kid, will make the atmosphere in family healthier.
Very often fathers complain that the child does not allow them to sleep at night. And if one - two - still can be stood three nights, then then fatigue and irritation collect and do not allow to work, care for family productively. In case the kid constantly cries at night, it is possible to try two options to calm him. - to put the first with itself in a bed. It will be so simpler to both mother, and the child. She will be able to stop in time attempt to begin to cry, having given a breast or having stroked the kid. The second option is to overcome temporarily the father to other room. It is worth remembering that children grow very quickly, and crying will sometime stop at night. For now, for general tranquility, spouses can have a sleep in different beds. In several months, and can even weeks, children's crying will become the phenomenon so rare that the father will even manage to miss it. For now parents need to have patience and to remember that the child is desire both. And to irritation, rage, aggression not the place in family whatever heavy the period was.