Of course, there is a wish that darling was always healthy also in good mood. When to the soulmate it is bad, you cannot find any peace too, try to lighten in every possible way the mood, to amuse and encourage.
What should be done if the girlfriend became sad?
First of all, it is necessary to understand the reasons of her grief. Try to call the girl on tea. You need to sit down nearby and it is sympathizing to have a talk, ask on what most of all disturbs her at present. However not all people at once willingly tell about the reasons of the bad mood. It depends on character of the girl. Some in a difficult situation become isolated, retire into oneself, others, on the contrary, share the troubles, expecting your participation. Anyway, you need to have patience and to try to find out what upset it.
You should not leave the girl in bad mood one, alone with own thoughts.
Regardless of whether darling of your help wants or not, you are obliged to offer it. The girl has to understand that in any difficult situation she can always count on you.
Just there is no mood
Women are persons with rather changeable character. Sometimes to be upset, to them some absolutely insignificant trifle suffices. In that case, try to distract the girl something – suggest to go for a walk or on the beach, go to ride the sledge in the winter, to rush snowballs, look at the light romantic comedy. Buy it favourite fruit or a tasty dessert. Sweet, as we know, lightens the mood not only to women, but also men. Organize a romantic dinner by candlelight or an excursion to other city.
It is sometimes rather simple to change scenery, to amuse, and the bad mood disappears completely.
If you are guilty
Happens and so that you made some act which upset her. Certainly, all people in the life make mistakes sooner or later. Now just time to correct them came. Sincerely ask for darling of forgiveness, but be ready that she will cease to take offense at you not at once. Explain the reasons of your act, promise to do from now on differently. Try to make your amends, the smart bouquet or some romantic gift will be in such situation very opportunely. It is very probable that it just lacks your attention. In that case try to spend from darling much time, do not vanish completely, you call during the day to learn, how its affairs. Whatever was the cause of bad mood, just be near, do not lose patience and you understand the girlfriend.