In life practically of any young man there were from time to time obscure situations in which his girlfriend does not call and does not write the SMS. If it still can be explained with the fact that the girl just does not want to show an initiative to communication, being afraid to seem excessively persuasive, then what to explain with the fact that she does not answer calls and messages of the friend?
Instruction
1. Properly think what you could make not so. It is sometimes not so simple to understand what miss you allowed, but for certain something in your behavior seemed to the girl so unacceptable that now she does not want to contact you at all. Perhaps, she cannot hide any more irritation which in it is caused by your absolutely illiterate SMS, or you were excessively persuasive. As option – it cannot take out any more your constant unreasonable jealousy or tendency to control its movements and behavior. The reasons for ignoring by the girlfriend of the guy there can be a set, and some of them can seem to the man absolutely absurd whereas for her they have huge value.
2. Wonder, it is how important for you to restore the relations with this girl. Whether you are ready to show an initiative to resumption of communication only because you feel wounded and you want to prove to it that actually you it is better than all guys whom she ever met? And maybe, this girl really to you is not indifferent and you can go to a lot of things to win her back to you? If you answered "yes" the second question, then will take rational in this case any given steps for resumption of your relations.
3. Keep in mind – practically all women are very curious. Even if she does not respond to your e-mails and messages, it does not mean at all that she does not read them. Write to the girl how she is dear to you as to you it was good and quiet near it and as her society is not enough now. Ask it to give you an opportunity to correct the mistakes made by you in the past. If your person is any not indifferent to this girl, then her heart by all means will tremble and she will contact you.
4. Try to reconcile if the girl still avoids you. For certain she has on that good reasons about which you learn sooner or later. Perhaps, she in general met someone, fell in love with him and now prepares for a wedding with him. And, maybe, the wedding already took place and they carry out the honeymoon somewhere on far islands? Anyway, if the girl does not make with you contact, use the best efforts on switching of the attention to other object. Life at you one, and you should not devote it at all to those who cannot and do not want it to estimate.