In spite of the fact that the man, by the nature, is a support, the defender of women and the getter in family, in society the equality of men and women was established. Now the female has to be strong and independent. Who is guilty of it and what to do?
Instruction
1. The husband does not work: in what a problem? Women, by nature soft and gentle beings, having feeling of devotion, not at once begin to think that their darling does not work. Someone's husband left, another seriously is ill both other, and other. In life there is anything, but women suffer, wait and work to provide family, conduct life, care for children. The reasons can be different, but if your man does not work, and it lasts long time, from several months to several years, it is worth thinking seriously. Perhaps, your guy just does not wish to work?
2. What to do if the guy does not work? Of course, you can accept a passive state and wait for "miracle" that the guy himself to change to the best. However, it is not the best choice. Try to show to the beloved that it is difficult to you to pull on itself life and work, and you would like to get from him support. If to change nothing, and your guy will continue to stay idle, then, perhaps, such man is not necessary to you. If, of course, you are ready to reconcile to the fact that all life you will live with the guy who without remorse sits on your neck.
3. How to force the guy to work? If your guy does not look for work, take part in search of earnings. Newspapers, announcements can help you with the Internet. Force it to go to interviews. If he continues to have a rest, at the same time rejecting all your offers throughout long time, then he is an idler and the idler. The real man will not allow the girl to work for him, he will go for work and will provide family. Tell the guy that you do not need the parasite, and you want a divorce. If he is not against such turn, then it is necessary to regret that you spent the time for this person and it is necessary to begin new life.
4. It does not work: it's all right! There are also such families in which the man does not work and the woman - the real workaholic and also financial family support. If you are not confused by this situation, and your income allows, then everything suits all, that, live. However, in such families the man, usually carries out female duties.
5. And the last, unfortunately, at any time this situation can not be convenient for you any more. You can become pregnant, and will go further: the birth of the kid, a problem at work what will be done by you and your husband if your income suddenly decreases whether you awake in this case to feel the husband, your support, on the neck is even more, than before?