If the guy took offense and does not want to continue communication, the girl can correct a situation. The tasty dinner, a sincere explanation and a little female cunning work wonders. The ability to recognize the wrongfulness will save your relations.
If the guy took offense, give him time to cool down and think of the incident. Premature apologies and showdowns can lead to a new quarrel. Only do not delay with apologies. The timeout in one-two days is enough.
If you are guilty – apologize to darling of the first. Only be sincere. Affected tears and hysterics will not help business. Honestly tell about the feelings and recognize a mistake.
Show care of the young man. Arrange him a pleasant surprise, make massage or feed with something tasty. Let it will feel that it is expensive to you. It is better to ask forgiveness for the guy personally when you see eyes and reactions of each other. By phone or online the addressee can ignore apologies. Do not promise during apology what you will not be able to execute. And if promised – you keep the word. Told that you will not be late for appointments any more, – become punctual! Be not persuasive and do not allow the guy to humiliate you. Even criminals deserve pardon and forgiveness. Apologize, but do not justify.
During the quarrel try not to beat the patient and not to rush phrases which will wound the partner. Say negatively concerning a situation or an act, but do not concern the identity of the man. If you feel that you cannot restrain from causticities, – leave. The pause will allow to cool down also to you, and your guy. You will not manage to tell each other what then it will become a shame with. Softly state claims in process of their emergence. You learn to talk to darling about the feelings. Then the collected offenses will not break outside rudely which will strongly touch the partner. Do not offend the guy in the presence of others, especially his friends and relatives. It will cause in him strong offense and disappointment in you. Do not deceive the loved one. The lie destroys the relations. If you discredit yourself in the opinion of the guy, to regain the trust will be difficult.
If the guy is not ready to accept your lifestyle or friends and constantly takes offense without the reason. In such situation it is necessary either to change you itself, or to find more understanding partner. If offense of the guy – protective reaction. Often shortcomings of us look for those who have a finger in the pie. The offense the young man can distract your attention from the offenses. If offenses – a reason for parting. Sometimes it is simpler to man to think up the imaginary reason to finish the relations with the girl, than honestly to admit that he met another.