Due to increase in prices for housing many young people are not able to afford the certain apartment. They should rent the room, sharing the territory with the hostess. In such situations very often there are problems on the household soil.
The hostess of the apartment carps at trifles - how to arrive
To secure itself, young people before settling to the room should advising to discuss all important vital aspects with the hostess. To specify at it, that guests can sometimes come that after work the lodgers can be late, coming after midnight that will be prepared in kitchen, like to sing in soul, etc. The more the moments it will be stipulated in advance, the it is less probability that the hostess will begin to carp.
When moving try to be pleasant to the hostess at once. Present her flowers, a small souvenir or the household appliance. The attention happens to very important lonely people, it is capable to melt the most rigid heart.
If constant claims did not stop, talk to the hostess. Tell her that ideal people are not, strangers in the apartment will always bring discomfort. But you pay it money which is capable to compensate some inconveniences. Hint that for your means you have the right to do that you want (of course, within reasonable). Ask not to disturb you on any questions except those which are connected with payment of the room or accounts. Explain that though the apartment and it, the room temporarily yours. And other space - kitchen, a toilet, a bathtub, a balcony - the general. You have the right to use them as well as it. Put yourself on one level with the hostess, you have to nothing to her, except the monthly rent.
Try to solve the conflicts peacefully, without quarrels and shouts. Very often emotions are what is necessary for the lonely women renting rooms. Having deprived of them this pleasure, you will secure yourself against constant scandals.
The room hostess does not want to make a compromise - what to do
There are such people who consider themselves always right. It is rather difficult to overpersuade them, it is almost impossible. If your room hostess such - a talk does not lead to anything. She will think all the same that she has the right to make you small remarks. In this case it is better to find other room. To live with such pretentious person very difficult about any rest after work of the speech and cannot be. The hostess will always find a reason for a quarrel. If there is no opportunity to move immediately, try to show the face to it as seldom as possible. Work more, you spend evenings with friends that the room hostess had no occasions to fray to you nerves. And surely look for new housing.