Usually wives have a gut feeling when their beloved husband is fond of the foreign woman. It becomes obvious, the man changes in the eyes. What to do with treason of the husband? The woman has to quietly and without hysterics to look at the event a sober view and to make the right decision.
When the man begins to change, the woman has not so many options of actions, only three. The woman can choose: the divorce, forgiveness or the neutral decision is to pretend to be ignorant.
Divorce after treason of the husband
Some married couples disperse because of incorrectness of the husband. Perhaps, this best decision. However most of wives suffer unfaithfulness, being covered with problems, possible at a divorce. Of course, any mother wants to raise children with the assistance of the father, to keep family and not to divide the acquired property. But the idle father is an example for the child.
If the decision on a divorce is made, it is important to follow it up to the end, without being under a delusion with apologies with flowers and chocolate. One life, and it is not obligatory for woman to spend it for the man who does not respect and does not appreciate the darling.
Forgiveness of the husband for treason
To forgive treason very difficult, not each woman is capable of it. There is also it: the woman claims that she forgave the husband, but in soul the rage and offense still sits. If the wife decided to forgive the unfaithful spouse, it is necessary to do it finally and irrevocably. It means that it is necessary to forget about an incident once and for all. The husband cannot remember in the future treason at all, to reproach him it, to exploit this fact. If the unfaithful husband sincerely regrets for deeds, forgiveness can become the best decision. The deep feeling of fault will not allow the man to repeat the mistake, and family life thus will get better.
The woman can pretend as if she knows nothing about treason. Psychologists do not advise this way to act. Sooner or later pain and offense for treason will find a hole and will pour out in a serious disease or a mental disorder. No emotion can be held in itself, especially negative, psychiatrists of the whole world go on about it. For adoption of the neutral decision in a problem of incorrectness of the husband, it is necessary to have courage and huge patience. This option can be considered only in case there is strong desire to change itself and the life. If to think, unfaithfulness does not arise in happy families. Means, something in relationship of spouses is not got on. Of course, intra family problems and the conflicts – not an occasion at once to run to the foreign woman. But men are weaker than women therefore they change a thicket. It is possible to get rid of problems with incorrectness of the husband if densely to be engaged in the family. Perhaps, and the husband will meet requirements of the spouse, having seen that that is for harmonious family.