Between the man and the woman who are in marriage sometimes there are conflicts and quarrels. One of the reasons of misunderstanding is the unwillingness of the husband to listen to the wife.
Why the husband does not listen to the wife?
At a matter research, there is one more: whether enters obligations of the husband in everything to listen to the wife. Perhaps, on the contrary, the wife has to obey the spouse? The husband is a head of the family.
In some case, saying that the husband has to obey the wife – wrong. The wife herself has to achieve that the spouse began to respect her, and, respectively, to listen to her opinion and to try to resolve family issues together with her. Judge, you will never listen to opinion of that person who is not so important for you or just does not cause your respect, that is has no authority. If the wife shows the nonsense day by day and cannot be in anything useful to the husband, naturally, the husband begins to scorn its opinion, including their senseless. In such cases the husband will constantly contradict in everything to the wife. He at the instinctive level will begin to contradict all statements of the legal wife and will do everything on the contrary.
What wife, such and husband
Practically everything depends in the house on the wife. Sometimes you should re-educate your husbands, and at many of them such qualities of which you would never think open, and it is even not about bad lines of its character. For example, prior to a wedding the husband always repeated that he is not going to do women's housework as it is humiliating. And suddenly after the wedding, the next feast, the husband got up and washed all the dishes or tidied up in the house. This action is quite normal. You should not think that you will be able to order the husband now. He just helped you to fulfill your duties. Often women want to show in public as they bring up the husbands to lift the advantage and authority. However it not so. The more the wife shows that she has influence on the husband, the more humiliates it, and the moment when all this bothers it will come, and he will cease to listen to the spouse and will not reckon with her opinion at all. Just show to the darling the true wisdom in councils, and he will feel that he has a need for you. Nobody should not know that you try to change the husband, except you, even your husband. Let better him think that everything that it does, comes only from its own reasons and concepts, but not on your manual. Men – the stronger sex, and they will never assume that ordered them and operated. However it is worth remembering popular wisdom: the husband – the head, and the wife – a neck (where will want, there and will turn the head). If your husband does not listen to you, look for a problem in yourself, maybe, you not so do something. Never it will turn out to achieve success scandals and misunderstanding. Make so that your legal husband felt as far as you are necessary for him, only do not expose it on display. Be mild, silent, peace, wise, kind, and only then your husband will stretch to you, and itself will want to make to you something pleasant.