The unpleasant situation arises in family if his ex-girlfriend begins to call the husband. At such moments the jealousy begins to torment the spouse, and she cannot often understand why the husband cannot leave behind the past.
Regret about the missed love
Talk to the husband and find out who calls him and what connects him with this girl. Perhaps, these calls are harmless at all, and the old acquaintance wanted to congratulate, for example, your husband with anniversary, successful career, replenishment in family or just called for the sake of interest. If this case took place once, you should not worry. However if you see that the man began to behave after that strange, long remains thoughtful and begins to find for you less time, perhaps, he remembered the past and the feelings to the ex-girlfriend, and it does not need to be disregarded any more.
Find out at the husband about his ex-girlfriend or ask to tell about it him friends. Perhaps, his love for it was very strong, and parting with it costed it great efforts. Doubts about whether correctly he arrived can constantly torment the man, having chosen you, but not having remained with it. If to disregard it, the man can break and change you, especially if the ex-girlfriend does not consist in the relations.
Informal conversation
Bring the man to straight talk and ask to tell about the feelings. Tell that do not apprehend in bayonets what he told. After that your spouse can admit that he is not released by feelings to the ex-girlfriend. Try to remind him of all important events which happened already during yours to it the relations at once. There has to be a reason, for which he left former, but at the same time fell in love with you and decided to start with you a family. Convince the man that it is better to live for the sake of the present and the future, than to dream of the past which any more not to return.
Advise the husband to remember all negative qualities of his ex-girlfriend. It will help it to cease to doubt correctness of the choice in relation to you.
Pay to the husband more attention and care for it better when he is anxious with thoughts of last love. Seeing your care and caress, he can feel better and settle down, realize that you are his only love.
Go together to a long travel. It will help to strengthen feelings and will force the husband to forget about the negative thoughts.
Go together to a long travel. It will help to strengthen feelings and will force the husband to forget about the negative thoughts. Call back to the ex-girlfriend of the husband and convince her not to call any more not to irritate you and your spouse. If she wants to remain his girlfriend and the husband not against it, be convinced that similar friendship will not develop into the novel on the party. Some time see to how the husband and how loving will behave and attentive in relation to you it will remain.