Kids, alas, cry very often, and it can enrage even their own parents. The father can be angry with the shouting child if that does not allow it to have a rest and get enough sleep quietly before the new working day. If such problems began, it is necessary to take measures as soon as possible.
How to weaken irritation level
For a start it is necessary to talk quietly to the husband and to explain to him that the child cries because of discomfort, tummy pains, the crowded diaper and for a set of other reasons as the chest child cannot simply call differently parents to the aid. It can seem strange, however men and really not always understand that children cry not because of own whims or desire to tease people around.
Choose successful time when your husband stays in good mood for a conversation and can quietly listen to you. If the irritation already collected, and the man is angry, the conversation can not yield the necessary result.
Try to make so that the child cried as little as possible. In due time change diapers, strictly observe the feeding mode, do special massage that the kid was not hurt by a tummy. Equip the room so that the baby felt safe and did not cry when there is no mother or the father nearby. For the night surely bathe the child, using the special calming herbs for preparation of a bath. Having consulted to the doctor, you learn what mixes will be suitable for your child. Thanks to such simple secrets it is possible to achieve that at night the kid will behave much more quietly, and your spouse will be able to get enough sleep and will cease to be angry with crying.
It is worth taking care of that you always near at hand had toys which help to distract and calm the kid also. Teach the husband to use them: he will begin to be angry less if he understands that the child can be calmed quickly. Also it is necessary to train it in simple art of a rocking the kid at hands. It will help to strengthen relations between the child and his father.
What to do if the man is enraged by crying of the kid
Help the spouse to find ways to calm down quickly. It is deeply possible to try 7-10 times to inhale and exhale. Other option is to vent the anger quickly on some subject then with a smile to approach the child and to try to console him.
You should not become angry about the husband for the fact that crying of the child irritates him. Such reaction is quite clear and natural, especially if it is imposed on strong fatigue. Do not quarrel because of it, do not aggravate situation.
Equip in the house the room with excellent sound insulation. Let there will be a place where it is possible to leave quickly to calm down and have a rest from children's crying. If over time you face such problem, the room can use in turn: while one parent calms the child, the second has a rest in silence.