For some husbands the office becomes the second house. The speech, alas, goes not about those who dream to provide the family and therefore seeks to earn as much as possible, and about those who just do not want to come back home. Such "imaginary workaholic" will find any excuse if only to return from work as it is possible later. At the same time not the mistress as some wives think, and simple unwillingness to communicate with family becomes fault to all often. Fortunately, it is fixableit is fixable.
If you had an impression that the man runs for work that it is less time to carry out with you, at first study "symptoms". If the husband comes back home not just tired, but angry, angry, does not answer your questions or throws short answers, does not wish to communicate, then the problem is available. Such men and houses try to be fenced off from family: they utykatsya in the newspaper, turn on the TV or the computer, pretending at the same time that they awfully were tired and are not able to rise from a sofa or a chair. They can answer any request: "I am busy" or "I was tired" and then to add the loudness that the TV muffled new requests and questions.
Kind of you were annoyed by such behavior, do not hurry to condemn the man. As a rule, people behave in this way if they do not want to communicate. Perhaps, you waved away from importunate colleagues or the bothered acquaintances more than once, and even intentionally avoided a meeting with them. To improve the relations with the husband, it is necessary not only to understand the reasons of his unwillingness to be with you, but also to try to improve situation. You should not tighten with it, there is no guarantee that your husband will not meet other woman ready to listen and caress.
Create houses the cozy atmosphere. If desired it is possible to improve an interior – for example, to add several juicy details to your bedroom. However it is much more important to manage to make return home desired for the husband. He has to know that the house is waited by the loving wife, a cozy situation, pleasant evening, but not scandals, shouts, reproaches, threats. If you come back home earlier, get a habit to meet the husband with a smile, to kiss him, and sometimes and to say that you very much missed. Do not fill up the beloved with questions and do not demand detailed answers. Just allow the husband to feel that houses love him and wait.
The sour face and terse answers can enrage, but it is possible to cope with it. Do not dare to break and the more so do not banish the husband with words that you will cope with everything, time he is not able even to arrive on time home. The man can only be delighted, having heard such "permission", and as a result he with clear conscience will begin to come from work even later than usual. Constrain emotions, be circumspect, and you will be able to correct a situation and to save marriage. And if it becomes too difficult to restrain, you will be helped by a conversation with the psychologist or visit of the gym in which there is a punching bag.