People who long time are in the relations sometimes can quarrel with each other. This phenomenon is quite natural, but it should not destroy love at all.
Instruction
1. If you understand that your relations with darling began to collapse gradually, first of all think of what could lead to such consequences. Possibly, you with the soulmate did not listen to each other requests, underestimated your love and neglected feelings. When you find out the cause of your conflicts, you for certain will be able to get rid of them.
2. Also to you will help to keep the attitudes of embrace and touch towards darling. Remember that the corporal contact brings together people. It improves mood and promotes production of hormone of oxytocin influencing in touch and attachments. Some people consider that preservation of marriage is promoted by stable intimate proximity though actually major role in good relations is played at all not by her. You will enjoy the partner when you constantly maintain with him tenderness. Kiss and embrace each other, these simple actions will help you to achieve family happiness.
3. To keep the collapsing relations with the beloved, try to spend free time together. And it is not obligatory for you to remain together within the walls of a home at all. Make plans for the weekend, attend together various entertaining actions and institutions, you go to movie theaters and to walks, switching-off cell phones. The more positive emotions you receive from joint rest, the your love will become stronger.
4. Besides, to keep family, try to learn to rejoice to any pleasant trifles. The sense of humour positively influences the intense relations. If you are near the darling and feel that between you the conflict is about to happen, try to remove stress by means of a joke. However you remember that there are such things at which it is impossible to laugh as the similar behavior can seem levity.
5. Learn to behave correctly during conflict situations. You should not blame in all that it happens, the darling at all. Never humiliate and do not offend him, and during reticences and quarrels try not to raise the voice and not to give an exit to negative emotions. You have to reach compromise which will help you to resolve your problems. Remember that troubles should not stake your love and tenderness. Work on the relations and then you will be able to be happy in marriage.