Women's treason is literally a knife in a back. It is painfully endured even by those men who also changed more than once the women. In this situation it is necessary to gather and to comprehend everything – to understand the reasons of betrayal of the wife and to decide on further actions.
Reasons of betrayal of the wife for the husband
It is important to understand what caused such event, only it will help to choose the right answer on a question of what to do if the wife fooled around. So, we will consider probable causes:
- She seriously was fond of another. Women seldom agree to an affair for the sake of an affair, most often on an adultery they are pushed by personal sympathy for other man.
- She wanted to revenge. Perhaps, she revenges out of jealousy, or having learned about your treason. And it is possible, she revenges for lack of attention, for the fact that she felt unnecessary, unloved, unwanted in the house.
- It gave in to minute weakness. If it occurred after some party and not on the sober head at all – most likely, quite so and was.
- She saw a bad example before eyes. If mother of the woman fooled around, or all her girlfriends fool around, gradually can seem to her that it not a deviation, but norm, and there is nothing in it terrible. However it concerns only morally weak women.
- She met the old love. There is a category of women which keeps many years the memory of cancelled love in heart and if an object is near, having lost the head, go to it to embraces. Even if know that it will not lead to anything.
Of course, there is also a mass of other reasons, however they are the main. Usually the woman changes not because of purely physiological motives though, of course, there are also such cases.
What to do if the wife changed?
First of all, in such situation it is necessary to calm down though it and is difficult. Take a timeout, collect the thoughts. Learn from it why she afforded such act and what she offers exit options from current situation. And after that properly think what to you now to undertake.
You can give in to a desire of pride and suspend relations. But whether your torments are worth it to separate the loving couple because of one oversight – especially if the wife really regrets? If you see that it really there was a single episode about which she very much regretted, and there is a chance to keep family, once it uses chance.
Listen to yourself. Now you worry, but over time it will cease, and life will return to the old course. But you remember – it is impossible to keep the relations if you nourish the idea to sweep or if you at soul have an offense. To forgive – means to forget. Only in this case the family has chance of preservation.
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