In families there are not always equal and quiet relations. Spouses can quarrel, shout, swear and even to leave the house. But at this moment it is not necessary to become despondent, and to solve for itself – whether you want to return it?
How to return the wife
At the affirmative answer it is necessary to start actions. Do not shelve return of the wife, she can get used to life without you or find another. Give it day - another to cool down, and then begin operation on return.
Sort out the reasons because of which it left. Remember all her remarks, claims and charges for the last month. Most often women leave due to the lack of attention or from laziness of the husband. Use the gained knowledge to show how you changed.
Begin to communicate with it. If she does not want to see you, do not stop trying to contact it. Send a bouquet of flowers through the delivery service, send lovely SMS messages, throw up letters with apologies under a door, you call by telephone. Show that you regret for your gap and you want to correct everything. When she tempers justice with mercy, show changes in your life. For example, if she blamed you for carelessness, begin to pay it compliments and to show other affection. If you found work better, report about it to it, promise that now you will better live. Do not repeat last mistakes when it returns to you. It so do not give it a reason to leave will constantly not return. Try to communicate, pronounce more problems, to look for ways of their decision and help it about the house.
How to live without wife
But if you understand that to return the wife it will not turn out or you do not want to be restored to family life, it is necessary to learn to live alone. Do not give in to despondency and be not depressed, life on it does not come to an end. Do not try to wash down the grief with alcohol. In such situation some men become an inveterate drunkard and become alcoholics, do not fall before. It is better to refuse for a while alcoholic beverages soberly to look at the events and to adjust the life. Fill up the free time. Allocate time for fishing, repair the car, be tidied up in a garage, re-read favourite books or play computer games. So you will not keep time to consider the events and to endure pain from loss of the beloved. Be chosen in people, be not closed in yourself. When there passes a little time and you will feel in yourself forces to begin the new relations, be not afraid to burn. You do not transfer last offenses and experiences at other women. It is not obligatory at all that history will repeat. Get acquainted, communicate, fall in love and learn to enjoy the relations.