What to do if the young man - the boor

What to do if the young man - the boor

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People sometimes are rude with each other and if the guy to you is rude, it does not mean at all that he is a bad person, just it has the specific manner of communication.

Why the guy is rude

If the young man roughly speaks in your address, you have to understand what is the reason of his similar behavior. Very often the rudeness is result of the wrong education. The man grew in the heavy family atmosphere, parents communicated among themselves with voices raised and rudely therefore the man simply is not able to talk in a different way.

The second reason of male rudeness - attempt to pay your attention to itself. In life you for certain heard a set of flattery and various compliments, and here the male roughness is something new. Girls like bad guys therefore some of them choose such tactics.

The third reason can consist in non-reciprocal sympathy. If you are pleasant to the guy, but he understands that you pay attention and to other men, most likely, he will communicate with you roughly. All this happens because of a low self-assessment and resentment.

What to do if the guy is rude

If your young man treats you boorishly, at first you have to talk quietly to him and find out the reason of similar behavior. As soon as you knows of what influences a manner of his communication, explain to the man that it is necessary to communicate with girls in a different way. Inform it that you do not like how he talks to you, and otherwise threaten with break in relations. If the young man values you and your feelings, he for certain will try to correct the errors. Some girls try to respond to rudeness with the same coin, however it is not recommended to do. You should not fall to the low level of the interlocutor and assimilate to it. Be higher than it. Try to be unaffected by his rough words, and it is even better if you react to roughness a warm smile. Most likely, to the guy it will be awkward therefore he will try to make amends and will apologize you. If nothing helps, and the man and remains a boor, you have to think of whether such relations are necessary to you, whether you are capable to suffer further such insignificant treatment of you. Fall in love with yourself and do not allow anybody to walk about you. Your self-assessment should not suffer only because near you there is an ill-bred young man. Stop with him communication and try to find to yourself more worthy partner in life who will be able to make happy you further.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team

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