Parents sometimes have urgent matters which cannot be solved together with the kid, it is necessary to leave him for a while. But not all have grandmothers or other relatives who will agree to sit with the child. In such cases to have to look for unexpected decisions.
To leave the little person of one up to 6 years the psychologists do not advise, he can strongly be frightened from absence of mother or even to do something awful. Independent stay has to take root gradually, but not at a time and at several o'clock.
Search of acquaintances
If there are no grandmothers or they cannot come to the rescue, it is necessary to call friends or girlfriends. Probability is high that at someone day off, and it will be able to sit with the kid. Here it is important to be very correct and to create good conditions. Promise that you will bring the child that you will give him with yourself the mass of toys and he will strongly not distract the assistant. Than the kid is more senior, that high probability that someone to agree, it is simpler to look after the five-year-old child, than the baby.
Perhaps near you there lives some pensioner who spends time on a shop at an entrance. Usually such women brought up already and the children and grandsons, they are able to treat children. Take an interest, but whether it will be able to sit with the child several hours? Of course, for it it is worth promising some reward, but it will be a good release of their provision. But here it is important to understand that it is worth trusting only those whom you know personally and are sure of adequacy of the person.
Nurse
Today there are various agencies which offer services of the nurse. You can elect the assistant who will arrive to you home, or you will bring to him the child. At the same time you can demand identity documents, and also confirmation of pedagogical education. It is more convenient to employ the nurse through the enterprise as the contract for cooperation is signed, conditions of provision of services are discussed. But it is necessary to do it in advance, but not when it is necessary to run on affairs. The nurse according to the announcement can help out in an urgent situation too, but there is a risk to run into different people who are not always able to find a common language with kids. It is better to address people according to recommendations, but not just to choose on the websites of announcements.
Children's center
Today there are children's centers where parents can leave the child for some time. Usually stay is limited for 4-6 hours as it is not kindergarten, there is no opportunity something to eat and to have a sleep. Usually all children are divided into age groups, and tutors think out joint occupations. It happens cheerfully, informatively and safely. You can leave at first the kid in the training group, and then ask the tutor to transfer to game. Children's rooms help parents with accommodation of children with shopping centers too. The feature of this stay is that together there are children of different age, someone feels comfortably in the similar company, but there are children who do not love similar collectives. Usually kids are trusted animators for a couple of hours, but this time can be enough for the solution of important questions. But do not forget to leave the phone number that in case of unforeseen tears could gather and report to you about a problem.