Newlyweds with pleasure spend with the beginning of matrimonial life together time and with love look at all shortcomings. But after a while the irritation, desire to stay alone, frequent quarrels can appear. You should not be frightened, you just emotionally were tired from each other, and it is solvable.
Learn to communicate
Sometimes quarrels and disagreements can arise literally from scratch, generally because of misunderstanding. For example, if you are quick-tempered, but quickly depart, explain it to the partner. Then he will not be perplexed because of your impassioned reaction to the reached a limit milk. When your emotions cease, approach it and apologize. But think up a way to allocate serious situations that it did not take state of emergency for simple emotionality.
Find common interests and subjects for discussion. Remember what united you at the beginning of the relations what you then spoke about and what were engaged in. Try to resume this talk though in the beginning there can be awkward pauses. Learn and tell the partner interesting news about yourself and your relatives, about the achievements or dreams.
You spend time out of couple. Everyone has to have time which it will be able to spend for the hobby and communication with friends. So you will be able to vanish and, perhaps, to miss the darling. It is not obligatory even to leave the apartment, it is enough to spend time in different rooms behind hobbies.
Have a rest from a household routine
Remember a flower and candy stage of the relations when you walked and enjoyed society of each other. Then it was not necessary to argue because of dirty ware or the shortage of money. Allocate 1-2 days a month to be discharged of petty adversities. Just postpone household chores, beautifully put on and go to an appointment. So you will be able to update feelings, to have a rest from a routine and to get rid of emotional fatigue. If the husband and the wife work as equals, divide household chores. After unlucky day everyone wants to have a rest and if to divide affairs equally, it is possible to finish quicker and to enjoy rest together. Be sent on leave. On the one hand, change of a situation will help you to relax, and on the other hand, you with the spouse will be able to update your relations. If fatigue is strong, it is possible to go to one place, but to choose different hotels. Then you will meet only by mutual consent, to spend a little time together, without bothering each other. If nothing helps, ask for the help the psychotherapist. He will be able to estimate your couple, to find approach to each of you and to help with communication. Will offer solutions of your problem. Be not afraid and are not ashamed of such step, it is better to try all ways. Business can sometimes be not in simple fatigue, and in something much more serious. Do not start the relations, and then they can be saved.