What to do if you are not loved by the father

What to do if you are not loved by the father

Dislike is shown in indifference, unwillingness to support, share life experience, to find time. Understanding that the loved one does not love leads to isolation, prevents manifestation of openness and love for other people. It interferes with achievement of success in different spheres of life.

Search you etalonanaydit in the immediate environment family in which between parents and children the fine relations were created. If you consider that the father loves children, you treat this person as to a role model. If among acquaintances there is no such family, expand a circle of contacts. For this purpose be in new places, do not avoid a talk with people which is near. Sooner or later have an opportunity to make friends with good people. Unreal ubezhdeniyeponablyudav from outside behind life of successful family, inspire in yourself that your father — same. This belief seems unreal and impracticable, but you model the future. Your thoughts — the kingdom in which it is possible to come to be instantly and where desires come true. It is not necessary to wait for decades to begin to enjoy life. Unostentatious zabotakazhdy day do something good for the father. Act this way because he loves you — according to your beliefs. Care of the person leads to miracles. First, you will feel stronger because care always for weaker. Secondly, gradually heart of the father can thaw, and he will change the attitude towards you. Even if it will not occur in the nearest future, you will internally grow. Only stock up with patience — consider that it is such game. You notice unexpected prazdnikiyesl in the father of change, at once organize a house celebration. Do not tell in what occasion joy — continue the game. At such moments think that your kingdom becomes more real. For creation of a holiday do that you can do — it is possible to set just beautifully the table and to invite all to tea. Light budushcheechashche you say to the father that when retires, you will care for him; or when you will begin to earn more, buy him the car, etc. Inspire in it thoughts of the good future, related to you. Perhaps, the father does not love because he was not loved in the childhood, and he did not play the wonderful kingdom. Your efforts will set him thinking. Regret the unfortunate person. Temporary to the trudnostena lower hands if instead of positive changes the father becomes angrier. Sometimes so happens, but continue the game — perceive everything so as if the father pretends to be the villain, and actually not such. If support is required, address friends who have good families. They will give a practical advice.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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