What to do if you love the friend

What to do if you love the friend

Classics say that the love improves the person. The love gives inspiration and promotes creativity, it uplifts the person to spirit tops. It sounds beautifully, here only love for the one whom well you know, close spiritually, but infinitely far, leaves deep wounds which no creativity can heal. Sometimes so occurs if you love the friend.

First, stop to draw a situation in absolutely gloomy tones. The girls in love with homosexuals have a chance even. The main thing is to consider strategy, to choose tactics and it is correct to choose time of actions. And it will be easier for you to make it, than to the person who does not know your friend at all. Secondly, it is necessary to analyze those relations between you which already developed. Perhaps, you are loved too, just young man cannot tell it in any way, suffers and is afraid to spoil friendship and to lose you in general. The special relation of the young man can be seen in trifles. The loving person often to you touches, cares for convenience, very much makes thrifty use of your things. Perhaps, this guy loves, but does not realize it, or perhaps feeling at him brotherly, especially friendly. Try to make the preliminary diagnosis. Thirdly, it is necessary to investigate a situation on the personal front of darling. If it does not consist in the constant relations with another (or to others), then you have very good chances. If it is in the relations with someone, the task becomes more difficult. The morals in love do not exist, but it is possible to interfere with others relations only if there are 100% confidence and you can prove that it will be better for it with you. If to try to break others relations selfishly, it will not bring happiness because the friend will be unhappy. Fourthly, it is necessary to write the letter with declaration of love. The fact that you chose the person in friends already says that he is a worthy person and will not offend you. Type the letter in the text editor that it was easier to be edited, try to make it original and warm, state in it why the person should be with you and why you so strongly love it. Give the letter and wait for response, the loving person will be delighted. The one who is not sure, will think, and the one who cannot fall in love, honestly admits it. The clarity is better than tortures of unrequited love. Friendship will not suffer from such recognitions, on the contrary, the good friend will begin to treat you even more carefully and it will make the relations more confidential.

Author: «MirrorInfo» Dream Team


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