The love sometimes comes absolutely suddenly when you do not wait for it at all. Some men with fear realize that they have a tender affection for wives of the best friends. Such situation often enters men into a stupor, and they do not know how to work further.
Instruction
1. If you understood that you fell in love with the wife of the best friend, first of all try to understand own feelings. Find out whether they are serious, or you just have fleeting feeling of passion and ordinary physical inclination. Only this way you will be able to understand how to you to work further.
2. If your sympathy for the wife of the best friend is banal feeling of passion and desire, it is not necessary to destroy others stable relations. Present that you will manage to sweetheart the desired girl, you will take away her at the best friend, and after intimate proximity will just lose to it interest. Such act you not only hurt the woman, but also will lose the most loyal friend.
3. If you understand that you really love the spouse of the best friend, you need to pay attention to the relations of these young people. When the harmony and consent reigns in them, any your actions will cause only negative consequences. You can just destroy good couple and besides lose the faithful companion. Just put some idea to yourself that when the person sincerely loves someone, he has to care not for that to it it was good. To the man in love it has to be wanted that his darling was happy. Stop any trying of rapprochement with the girlfriend of the friend, let them enjoy with each other and enjoy family life.
4. If you understand that the wife of your friend is unhappy in marriage, you can begin to make active actions. First of all you need to talk to the best friend, to apologize to him and to honestly tell him about the feelings to his soulmate. Tell that you cannot make anything with them as you already tried to forget his spouse. Explain that it is painful to you to look that your friend does not appreciate such wonderful girl, and you could make her happy. However be ready that your friendship on it will end.
5. After the conversation with your friend, you can begin to try to obtain the girl. Surround her with attention and care. Make so that she understood that you it is much better, than her husband and are capable to love and appreciate her. Make an avowal of sentiments. If between you the romantic relations begin to be entered, most likely, the woman will decide on a divorce. Only you remember that in case you after all achieve the, you will have to cherish the darling as the apple of the eye. Otherwise, all your actions will become vain, and you will just destroy her happy life, than will cause hatred of the woman in relation to you.