Love triangle – a widespread figure in geometry of human relationship. Internet forums dazzle with female complaints: "I love two, I suffer what to do, I do not know!" Men keep silent more, but also some of them quite often occupy two ladies' hearts at once. A difficult situation, but, speaking directly, causing to try to it very peculiar sympathy similar to empathy to the person who does not know, watermelon or a pork hryashchik or maybe that, and another at once?
They say, the heart has a will of its own. Really, the person is not always mister of the feelings. To feel and still is one, and to work - another. The act is the strong-willed act. That is why, when the person shares a bed with one partner, with another, it is possible to claim that treason is his moral choice. How to refrain from treason if passions overwhelm? Mother or other loved one can unburden the heart, to go to church, to register in consultation to the psychologist. Anyway take a break, separate for a while from both partners, you need an opportunity to consider a situation without any pressure from the outside. Very much the distant trip or a business trip will help out at such moment. Of course, to you it is not necessary to inform the partner with whom you already have relations of the sincere throwings: perhaps, "on the cold head" you will understand that feelings to the new beloved – no more, than unnecessary hobby.
Even if you made the decision to maintain intimate relations with both partners, be ready that sooner or later secret can become obvious, and then you should or leave one of darlings, or to stop the relations with both, or "to continue this tango three together" as Christina Orbakaite sings. It is good if you manage to make a choice with which of partners to remain, so far you know of a love triangle only. When treason becomes obvious, perhaps, you will have no option any more. Probability to lose that person, the relations with whom deeper, test by treachery can become for it excessive, is high. Even if darling also everything will agree "to forget" and to continue the relations, the trust will be lost forever. There are, however, also "progressively" conceiving people who are ready to consider option of family of three partners. History knows such examples: Vladimir Mayakovsky, Lilya Brik and Osip Brik; Simona de Beauvoir, Jean Paul Sartre and Olga Kazakevich; Vera Muromtseva, Ivan Bunin and Galina Kuznetsova … it is possible to continue this list further. Nevertheless, the same story makes it clear that none of participants of such cohabitation were especially happy, suffered more, "tore" hearts and nerves, and as a result all the same left. Think of whether accept you partners everyone separately. Perhaps, maintaining the relations with two, you only try to approach the ideal of darling. Such attempt "Nicanor Ivanovich's lips yes turns out to put to Ivan Kuzmich's nose and to take some forwardness what at Balthasar Baltazarycha and, perhaps, to add to it still Ivan Pavlovich's portlinesses", as in Gogol "Marriage". In that case, perhaps, there is no sense to maintain the unpromising relations, and it is worth paying attention to someone of the third, fully having qualities, attractive to you.