The relations are under construction on trust. It is important that it was possible to rely on the partner as on itself, and there was no need to doubt his words. If your darling regularly lies to you, such state of affairs cannot but upset.
Lie as protective reaction
Often the lie can be protective reaction. In the childhood of the girl spoke to mother that already ate soup and learned lessons that that did not abuse them. Having become adults, the same girls can say to the guys that they will come after classes at the university into library though actually go with friends to cafe. And though it should not be full justification of a lie from the woman, think: perhaps, you too press on the girl, and she lies because of fear to anger you? Further try to give to the young lady more freedom, and then at her need will not act this way. In visit with classmates of cafe or movie theater or campaigns with the girlfriend on shops there is nothing seditious.
Lie as fear to hurt
If you love the girl, news that she created the novel on the party and just the fact that the new employee was very sexy young man who is not burdened with the relations with whom it is possible to poflirtovat with pleasure, for certain will upset you. And the young lady perfectly understands it therefore she invents stories about the chief who gave her an overtime task, and the grandmother to whom urgently something was required in drugstore. What to do in such situation, if to you the truth accidentally opened – to begin to sort out the relations, to wait when the girl ripens and everything will tell, or to reconcile – to solve to you. Anyway for you probably not the lie, and treason of darling will become the greatest problem.
Lie as a way to have a good time
Children who were able it is fascinating to tell about the meeting with aliens or about how they, bravely battling, could defeat the maniac and hand over him police, steadily gather around themselves crowd of enthusiastic listeners. The similar habit can be fixed, and then already adult girl instead of honestly admitting that on the road from mother she became engrossed in talking with the girlfriend and therefore was late, will think out firefight with taking of hostages. If the similar habit confuses you, but a talk does not help, show to the darling on a bright example as her behavior looks. Next time, when the girl will ask you where fresh linen from the dryer got to, safely tell about pirates who boarded a balcony and took out all your washed socks and underwear. After several similar stories the young lady herself for certain will suggest you to tell each other only the truth.