In the hit song of the 1960-70th years "There are little girls", sad domestic realities which come down that "on ten little girls statistically nine children" are reflected. Unfortunately, the situation did not change for the better since then, and many women face a problem of search of the partner in life.
The girls and women aspiring to a marriage, first of all, should expand a circle of the communication. For acquaintances all opportunities are good: communicate online, post the questionnaires on dating sites, advertize in search of the soulmate in newspapers. It is not necessary to be closed within four walls and to spend evenings at home. On the contrary, try "to be published", take part in a friendly sit-round gathering, do not refuse the invitation to holidays and celebrations. At the same time you remember that anybody has no second chance to make the first impression. Carefully you watch the appearance: be at a make-up, well brushed and accurately dressed. Always you carry a pocket mirror, a hairbrush and the most necessary cosmetics in a handbag. At the same time consider the known saying that "the ball comes to the player". Do not go into extremes: the make-up and clothes have to correspond to your inner self. If, being at heart modest, you create to yourself a defiant image, then will attract at all not those men who suit you.
When setting new acquaintances behave kindly, but it is reserved. Give to the man an opportunity to speak, and try to listen and hear more. Penetrate into the fact that the man tells about himself and the relations with surrounding people; compare this information to own observations. Train insight peculiar to women.
You do not hurry to begin intimate relations. Men appreciate more they got what hardly. Besides, the gentleman should not give a reason to think of you as about the woman inclined it is easy to go on proximity. If there were several new acquaintances at the same time, it is important to cut unnecessary unpromising contacts at once. Mentally estimate applicants. It is possible to exclude from the list of potential grooms the men who are married, "philanderers" and also those who do not approach for the subjective reasons. Whether think, besides, there were in your environment no "mother's darlings", men whose words often disperse from business, and the gentlemen seeking to live beautifully at the expense of the partner. Such men, as a rule, not the best candidates for husbands, however communication with them will "eat" time which could be used for search of worthy party. When you decide on the elect, and the relations will enter a stage of intimate proximity, catch the man's "signals" that he considers you as the potential spouse: - spends with you much time, insists on frequent meetings; - remembers dates of your acquaintance and the first appointment; - remembers your birthday and presents with gifts, does surprises; - sponsors, protects you, it is ready to advocate your interests in the relations with other people; - is interested in all nuances of your life; - likes to talk to you heart-to-heart. You do not press on the man and you do not start conversations about creation of family of the first. There is more reliable way to let know that you are ready to family life. So, in your forces to make idea of what loves and what is not loved by the man and to provide to the elect comfort. Some regard as of paramount importance purity and an order in the house, others – tasty food, hospitality of the hostess, the attractive appearance of the woman is the most important for the third. Try to meet expectations of the gentleman though for this purpose, perhaps, you should work over yourself. At last, be not lost when receive proposal. If you are sure of the choice, agree. Do not risk to declare affected "no" when you dream to try on a wedding dress, again be your suitor for the hand the man can hesitate. Accept the offer beautifully and with advantage: you should be told about this event to children and grandsons more than once.