In life of almost each guy there comes such moment when it has to go to serve in army. It is inevitable and is one of duties of men. Too it is necessary their girls hardly, darling is too far.
Many consider that only guys can suffer from stay in army, there they pass the real school of survival, and girls lead a habitual life. But it absolutely not so! The woman is much more vulnerable and needs constant emotional proximity with the man. When it does not occur, women are depressed and sometimes cannot cope with sincere experiences. That is why it is so important to use time of stay of the guy in army with advantage both for the relations, and for himself favourite.
Stop to wash with tears a pillow and begin to act! Improve yourself - sign up for foreign language courses, start going to gym, learn to cook new and tasty dishes, go on a diet, read more, be interested in something new, travel, you go to the museums, to exhibitions. The guy will be glad to see near the itself changed, beautiful and attractive girl who to aspire to becoming better.
Do not impose on yourself house arrest. It is impossible to stay at home the whole year. Meet friends, you go to clubs, attend fashionable actions. The main thing - you monitor the behavior and do not flirt at all. Of course, easy flirting is not forbidden, but in everything it is necessary to know when to stop and not to be beyond decencies. How it was heavy without male attention and care, do not afford anything superfluous. Write letters and keep a diary. The guy will be glad to a news from darling therefore try to write him as often as possible. Tell about everything that occurs, send photos. This correspondence will help to endure separation. The diary - the best medicine for melancholy. It is better to entrust all collected emotions to paper, but not girlfriends who will not be able to facilitate your experiences. By the way, try to be more tactful in relation to people around - friends have too problems about which they want to talk.