Acquaintance to the guy or the girl always means a certain dialogue. And how it will develop, further development of the relations often depends. For this reason people who want to make a good impression on the new acquaintance need to choose with special care subjects for a conversation.
Instruction
1. At the very beginning of any acquaintance the people tell shortly about themselves. Tell the guy or the girl about the habits and abilities, about the hobbies and hobbies. It is quite good to remember close friends and amusing, interesting stories in which you got involved. Can happen so that you will find much in common, and further you will already violently discuss the subjects interesting to both. Perhaps, you love soccer, and your new acquaintance is a fan of this sport. In that case, you should not look for subjects any more for a conversation as they will find you. Only you remember that stories from your life should not be too intimate and it is better not to go into details of the biography, otherwise you risk to seem the meticulous and boring person.
2. It is good if you have excellent sense of humour. Tell the guy or the girl about any amusing incident or just share an amusing joke which was heard on TV with the new familiar person or read on the Internet. Keep in mind that the told joke has to be freshen because it will be awkward to your interlocutor to laugh at what he more than once heard.
3. If your new acquaintance is rather silent, it is possible to try get to talking his some questions. But these questions have to be on a free subject, not mentioning its personal space at all. It is possible to ask on his hobbies and on in what he is engaged in off-duty time. And here with whom he will see off it? and what to happen at it in soul, it is forbidden to ask strictly. If the person wants to tell something to you, he will tell.
4. It is possible to mention in a conversation some plans not the future. For example, you can report to the interlocutor about what you want to reach in life that for you is priority what you aspire to. If the guy or the girl keeps up the conversation, having connected to it the personal plans for the future whether you will be able to compare in mind on the way to you with this person, or you have too different views on life. Only you should not proclaim aloud the comparisons and to argue desperately with it, proving that your priorities it is more important, than its.
5. It is possible to diversify dialogue and several memories from the past. It will be for certain interesting to new acquaintance to learn any adventures of your life. Only you should not tell him about bitter experience of unsuccessful love or about family disorders. It is the best of all to remember the positive moments and to be interested vividly in similar true-life stories of the interlocutor. Also you remember that at the first acquaintance it is necessary to be to behave frostily and to show interest in acquaintance continuation.