In the relations there can be a situation when the partner it is necessary to leave. Parting can be temporary, for example, departure to army of the young man, departure of the girl to other city for a while, etc. Also parting can mean the end of the relations. In these cases the farewell to the girl will happen differently.
How to say goodbye to the girl for a while
Make farewell to the girl as it is possible more romantically. If you depart by plane, give romantic party with candles in cafe of the airport if by train – at restaurant of the station. Let the place of farewell at the girl be associated with something pleasant, but not sad. During a dinner try not to speak about your separation. You say to it more about how strongly you love it, invite her to dance.
Develop a conversation on subjects about what you will do when again you are together. Do not forget about flowers. Before departure you can imperceptibly put to the girl in a bag a leaf with the love message. For example, it can be such words: "Darling, (name of the girl). As soon as I appeared far from you, I understood even more as I love you. I will not long, me, on the contrary, there is a wish to smile with happiness, you are at me, I was very lucky. You are the most beautiful, true, kind, desired, sympathetic, favourite, lovely, gentle (choose something from these words). I love you!" The main thing that lines went from heart. If you lack imagination to write to the half the love message, you can just quote verses by poets, it and such option, undoubtedly, to be pleasant. The main thing, this your attention to it. She will appreciate it above all.
What to tell the girl when parting
Here the situation is more difficult, and will tell a valedictory very difficult. However if you decided to make it, then do. You should not continue the relations only because it is a pity for her and there is no wish to offend. If it is very difficult to you to tell "farewell" the girl words, write her the farewell letter. Everything does not need to be complicated and to paint in verses. It looks ridiculously and ridiculously. Just describe all reasons why you want to leave it. Of course, one letter a little. It is not necessary to take French leave, having left the partner in misunderstanding and offense. It is necessary to talk to her. Tell her that to you it was good that you are grateful to it for everything, but you cannot be together for certain reasons.
Women by the nature are very emotional therefore prepare that it will drop a teardrop. If it is necessary, embrace her, tell what it is good. Of course, it will be unpleasant and sore with it, but over time it to calm down. There can be also such option that the girl will begin to ask the guy to give it the second chance, to cry, ask everything to return. If these attempts are vain, will ask to remain friends at least. Do not give in on these words. Be firm and resolute, but you are not rude.
Try to answer all her questions that you did not have misunderstanding. After parting better in general stop communication with the ex-girlfriend. She has to understand that not to return the past, and their relations already in the past. Tell her: "To us it was good together, but now I do not love you, and will not change it in any way". These are the main words which you have to tell the girl at parting.