Despite the whole volumes written by experts about what attracts men in women a lot of things in the matter still remain to some extent a secret. So, sometimes difficult happens to understand why externally not remarkable lady wins the hearts of considerable number of gentlemen, and some clear head and beauty remains without couple.
Concerning what is pleasant to men in ladies there are many myths. They took roots in female consciousness and are already considered as many as an indisputable truth. Meanwhile, the girl conceiving in this way can meet serious difficulties, trying to realize these "mythological" councils in the aspiration to be pleasant to an opposite sex.
For example, it is considered that men prefer pictures of beauty with ideal forms. To be convinced of incorrectness of a similar statement, it is enough to look around. Or, in any case, I will give fair number of "gray mice", far from model parameters, meets the love and finds long-term happiness in the matrimonial union with the elect.
The concept "beautiful woman" is quite indistinct. Each man has personal ideas of beauty, sometimes very specific. Besides, own darling always seems the beauty.
At each man the tastes in respect of female appearance can differ. Someone is crazy about brunettes, and to someone on temper a fair hair. One loves long-legged and bolshegrudy beauties, and another is imposed by girls with a small size of a breast, and length of their lower extremities does not concern at all. Besides, mature (and not so much on age how many on intellectual development) the appearance of the woman interests men far not first of all. Certainly, it is necessary for them that the lady had absolutely no repellent exterior and was able to look after herself. However sincere qualities, including charm already move to the forefront for them. The lady allocated with it can not be the inveterate beauty, but at her the charm will be so strong that men will be involuntarily fascinated by it. The main thing that will attract them, - her amazing naturalness. In manners of such woman there will be nothing far-fetched and deliberate desire to be pleasant. On her not necessarily there will be cosmetics tons - if so, then it will be imperceptible. However it will exhale literally the femininity. Many put different sense in an above-mentioned concept. For example, include aggressive sexuality or even bitchiness there. The femininity presents to realities itself a set of qualities which by nature allocated women (though many, being under the power of myths, actually renounce this part of the nature). Here kindness, ability to share love, softness, sincerity and some other traits of character enters.
The main "magnet" attracting the man to a certain lady - her unconditional femininity, i.e. full possession of the qualities inherent in its floor.
If the lady is really womanly, she should not think of that, how exactly to attract men. At her it will leave naturally. She is rather clever that it was interesting to talk to it. She knows how and when to show own emotions. Its nature is many-sided. However the fact that among all its advantages there will be a main thing is more important - ability to show to the man his superiority. Such companion is looked for by each man - the woman near whom he will feel as the hero and which will not restrain his vanity. Also you should not follow the tastes of the myth according to which the lady to be pleasant to an opposite sex, has to be one continuous surprise. Certainly, can be interesting to spend time with such woman, but for the serious relations hardly someone will consider her candidacy. Men appreciate stability. Unpredictability of the darling for them, as a rule, is equivalent hysteria. Imposes them when darling remains herself at any life situations.