When between the girl and the guy the romantic relations begin to arise, they can talk for hours, aspiring as it is possible to know each other better. However at heart each girl feels that there are such subjects in a conversation with the darling which are better for not mentioning. What subjects are?
In spite of the fact that it is impossible to try to bring all relations existing between men and women under one denominator, after all there is a number of regularities. For example, men of different age and a different social status quite often unfamiliar with each other consider unacceptable the same things. What it is better not to tell the guy about if you, of course, do not want to change his attitude towards you for the worse?
It is sometimes better to chew, than to speak or what it is better for guy not to know about?
It seems to some girls that, staying in the relations, absolutely nothing needs to be hidden from the elect, it is even somehow dishonest in relation to him. Actually some things of the young man do not concern at all. For example, he does not need to know, what is the time, forces and finance darling spends him for that always and everywhere to be the most beautiful. No, he, of course, knows about existence of an epilator, pumice for legs and terrible color of face packs, but to listen about it, or especially, there is no need to watch process of reduction of in an order to it absolutely. In general, it is not necessary to tire the darling with chatter about dresses, shoes, hairstyles and fashionable boutiques – believe, he will estimate it.
It is not necessary to say to the man about how he is dear to you and as you are afraid to lose him constantly at all. Certainly, first to him it will be flatter to hear it, but pretty fast he will be satiated with this information, and manifestations of your jealousy will only irritate him. The girlfriend who is never dumped by men does not cling to darling and knows, than to occupy itself when he is absent nearby.
Absolute taboos in a talk with the guy
It is not necessary to speak with it about the former boyfriends even if he asks questions. Answer them evasively and accurately you give the conversation another turn, you do not know when and in what context it can remember to you such careless frankness in the story about those relations that were to it. Do not speak of being badly at all, if you met them, then something you had the general. In general, avoid malignant gossip about anyone. Never speak negatively of those who are dear to your darling. The absolute taboo is his mother; it is necessary to tell about this person either only the best, or at all nothing. Never tell the man about what you happened to change the former. The psychology of the man is arranged in such a way that he automatically begins to assume subconsciously an opportunity that you change also it. Whether he will want to wait quietly for this moment and to meet the light-headed girl? Hardly. Therefore avoid a talk about all situations in the past which does not decorate you.