Love - fine, sung in hundreds of works of art, feeling. Lyubov is capable to change not only lives of certain people and families, but as history shows us, and the whole people, the states. Unfortunately, today people more often are afraid of strong feelings and if fall in love, then are afraid to admit it.
Deep fears
Since early youth the young guys and girls begin to be interested in an opposite sex. These the first love often also form our subsequent behavior on the love front.
Respectively, each failure in the relations which happened at early age leaves a mark on our behavior in the future. Teenagers, owing to the inexperience and naivety, can step on the same rake more than once that develops a peculiar reflex: "the love = failure" from which happens rather difficult to get rid in the future without the assistance of experts.
Besides, young people, unlike girls, are also under social pressure. According to traditional ideas of "real man", the guy has no moral right for expression of the emotions that leads to formation of complexes and does by the young man held down and dry in the relations with the weaker sex. In turn, girls since early years are taught that the first step is an unworthy behavior, and they have to expect actions from the elect. Because of similar installations we can test an array of problems in the relations. Some kind of vicious circle turns out: the man does not show the feelings as is afraid to seem weak, and the young lady does not admit sympathy as is afraid to seem fluffed up. Proceeding from it, it is possible to draw only one conclusion: it is necessary to fight against the traditional installations and complexes which developed on this background.
To tell treasured words
When to make a declaration of love only you can solve, and nobody has the right to insist on these words. If your second half makes a declaration of love to you daily, but you do not feel the same in reply, it is better to cost more neutral: "You are pleasant to me" or "I am glad \and that we together". The lie, especially a lie about such feeling as love destroys not only the relations, but also the personality. But what to do when you fallen in love and ready to take the first step, but you are afraid, are not sure of feelings of the partner or just you hesitate to take the first step? Of course, the easiest way is to write the message on social network or SMS, such way will help you to save face if the refusal follows, or even to reduce misunderstanding to a joke. The romantic surprise if it is well prepared, will be able not only to inform of your message the addressee, but also in addition will help to win over darling. For example, it can be the courier with a bouquet of flowers or a gift and beautifully issued letter with recognition. But, undoubtedly, the best way to inform of treasured three words the beloved, it to overcome the fears and to say "I love you", looking in eyes each other with a smile. Be not afraid to make a declaration of love, and it will be mutual!