Sometimes life in couple is really similar to the fairy tale. Much more often gloomy clouds hang a routine and efforts, but partners are capable to get out of this situation without loss and with new pleasant feelings to each other. Unfortunately, such stories when and together it is already impossible meet and to leave the sinking ship there is no determination. How to understand that your relations have no future?
1. When you live in dread that the partner will leave because you will disappoint him. Even if you still did not notice it, with high probability this person manipulates you. When we fall in love and we build the relations, can be very painful to us from a thought that will be disappointed in us. And manipulators use this pain to achieve from us desirable behavior. In the healthy relations the people talk and agree with each other, but do not keep in constant awe, pressing on sore points.
2. When you constantly feel need to watch the partner, to check his messages, to look in mail. Such total mistrust happens in two cases. Or you have very low self-assessment and when it brings to paranoia, it is necessary to address the expert. Or your partner really gives to you a reason to him not to trust, being covered with what you all invent. Besides, if your partner is absolutely open with you, he has nothing to hide, and he is capable to discuss it is a good development of the relations. If you "cook" in these experiences one, and he with a sneer or with irritation observes from outside – it is time to release it.
3. When you do not feel satisfaction and joy in the relations. It is absolutely abnormal situation. People have to be together exclusive because to them well with each other. When happiness escapes, and all of you more often are are angry or frightened near this person, it is time either to take measures, or to leave the partner.
4. When in conflict situations only you are ready to make a compromise. Especially this situation has to guard if the cause of conflict not in you. Still any dispute hesitated safely only one party. Do you really want that never reckoned with you?
5. When your partner does not notice your advantages. It is especially bad if he denies them. One of the most dangerous situations in the relations if one person slowly and purposefully destroys a self-assessment of another.
6. When your partner parasitizes on you. You work without cease. And not only at work, but also houses: children on you, the house on you, kitchen on you, even repair on you. And your partner for years looks for himself and inspiration lying on a sofa. Believe, this situation will never change. Did you dream of such life?
7. When it is difficult to you to think of the joint future. In the healthy relations you feel joy and stability in tomorrow with this person. But if you already long time drive away thoughts of why you still together and as you will live further, it is important sign that you should not continue.