About when people fall in love that induces them to have this fine and strong feeling, many think. It is known long ago that the love can come to the person absolutely suddenly, and at the same time it is absolutely optional that its subject differed in faultless beauty or angelhood.
The first impression, similarity and complementarity
The important factor influencing emergence of feeling is the first impression about the person. The decision on that, the potential elect is pleasant (or the darling) or not whether it is worth beginning the relations with it, arises already at the first meeting. Certainly, the person does not begin to deliberate it at once. As a rule, everything occurs at the level of subconsciousness and only then is postponed in consciousness.
Quite often the person falls in love when he sees in another something similar to him, that he distinguishes both of them from monotony of the world around. However, too similar people often cannot be together as it simply bothers. Usually the person looks for the one who can add in something him. Not without reason some girls, wishing to get to fall in love the young man, successfully use the following reception: ask it to teach them to something like that that he loves and is able to do. Options can be various: drawing, ballroom dances, skating, a game on billiards, driving, etc. Not without reason young teachers sometimes happily fall in love with the students.
The egoism which is giving rise to love
Strangely enough, at an early stage of love the large role in its emergence is played by egoism. In other words, quite often the person falls in love when he sees admiration of the advantages in someone's eyes. If to argue theoretically, then the probability that 2 persons at the same time will fall in love with each other is quite small. Nevertheless, in life it happens not so seldom. The thing is that the person, first of all, pays attention to in what eyes sees interest or sympathy. The large role is played here also by in due time said compliments which can be addressed both to the woman, and the man. Happens and so that the person can fall in love when he sees that the arising feeling will bring him a certain benefit. It does not mean banal calculation at all, the rich inner world, sense of humour, kindness and other merits of an object of love can become some kind of "favorable acquisition" here. So it is put by the nature that men and women are not similar at each other not only externally, but also on views, a communication manner, habits, etc. The true love will come to them when they learn to understand each other and tolerantly to treat differences in habits and characters. And, of course, people fall in love when there comes their time to love.