In society there is an ambiguous attitude towards female friendship. Someone considers that it differs in nothing from men's, and someone does not believe in it. Meanwhile, sometimes the girlfriend can really turn into the enemy.
The female friendship traditionally is considered weaker, than men's. Women are the beings subject to mood and emotions. Also the woman usually pays more attention to the house and family, than social life - it is easier for it to tear the existing social communications. Besides, men look for support in friends while the woman will ask for the help parents or the husband rather. All these prerequisites do female friendship of more fragile. But the girlfriend can sometimes turn into the real enemy.
The most banal reason for such "regeneration" is a love for the same man. If both of you did not report to him about the feelings yet, and he treats both of you equally, then still there is a probability to keep good relations. But if the man pays attention to you, then even the best friend can become the sworn enemy. Here at the center there are primary instincts of survival. The number of women on the planet are more than number of men therefore everyone seeks to find the suitable partner as soon as possible. And when the pleasant man begins to look after another, any woman is capable to fly into a rage. Having appeared in such situation, your girlfriend can experience double negative emotions: an object of her passion was fallen in love another, and the best friend "betrays" because of the man. Here you should choose that it is more important - the friendly or love relations. Think as far as you suit the man in love and whether you will be able to live without close girlfriend. But can quite happen and so that you will choose the man, and the girlfriend will come then with apologies. There is no wonder, women are beings emotional.
At a quarrel with the girlfriend try to keep cool. Perhaps, you still reconcile, and sharp words will be forgotten not soon.
The rift in relations can happen also because of banal envy. Anything - good work, a beautiful figure and even a new dress can be an occasion. Such situation often happens when women communicate since the childhood. Till a certain moment their life is similar - childish sports, school, institute... But then one of women begins to work strongly and tries to obtain success, and the second fails. And, as it is peculiar to all people, less successful girlfriend accuses of everything not herself, and destiny. She becomes offended and embittered, and all this negative is transferred to the successful girlfriend. If in your life there was such situation, try to have with the girlfriend a heart-to-heart talk. Explain what was cost by your success how many you worked for the sake of it, offer the girlfriend the help in achievement of the goals. Think, maybe, you lately were too haughty or busy.
If the friendly relations fall, it is difficult to endure it. But it is better to have one, but reliable friend, than a set of unreliable.
However, also the return situations are frequent. If your girlfriend climbed a social ladder, it can begin to concern you haughtily. Such people often think that acquaintances from "last" life dishonor them. Observe the girlfriend: whether there was she to communicate with you less whether it avoids you, whether her behavior in society differs from behavior alone with you. It is possible that behind a cup of coffee in kitchen it will be the same darling and idle time as earlier, and in the familiar company it will become cold and reserved. In such cases it is necessary to reconcile - true friends will never hesitate of each other. Remove number of the former girlfriend and forget about her.