Quite often couples in which the husband is much more senior than the wife meet. Such unions cause a controversy, envy, admiration – any emotions, but often all these emotions rather strong. Such relations special – and it is necessary to treat them specially.
When the husband is much more senior than the wife, he is much more skilled – in life in general and in family life in particular. Such men, if choose wives are much younger, then, as a rule, present them with love and fascinate by stability and understanding. However, different views on life and different experience often become the causes of large quarrels.
In similar marriage both parties have to make concessions. The husband has to be indulgent to weaknesses and hobbies of the wife, she – to the husband's habits of which any more do not get rid. The woman needs to reconcile to the fact that the husband will be a head in family. To him it is necessary to listen, his opinion needs to be appreciated. The husband needs to treat with patience hobbies of the second half: it can be more active, than the spouse, to have more hobbies and to aspire to new heights whereas the husband who already accumulated experience and understanding what it is necessary to aspire to and to what – no.
If the man is much more senior, then diseases overcome him earlier, than the woman. Such is statistics. The wife needs to be ready to the fact that darling will try not to show the indispositions, but at the same time to him it will be bad. It is worth stipulating such moments carefully from time to time.
The jealousy can ruin any relations. In the union where the husband is much more senior, the jealousy usually is expressed in especially sharp form: the wife is much younger, beautiful and charming, around her there are a lot of men. By itself, the jealousy will be. Most likely, it will be much stronger from the husband. Therefore the man needs to behave and trust the spouse: she chose him. To convince the husband of the purity to the wife, in turn, it would be quite good to be published more often together with the spouse, proving thereby that to it it is good with him.
Men love attention. Men are more senior love it in particular – at many of them the fear of loneliness is very strong. Because of it often there are also jealousy problems.
Whatever was the age difference if people love each other, they will be able to find a common language. The main thing that there was desire. The age will not become a hindrance to happiness if spouses try to understand each other. To opposite views and different perception of the world it is necessary to be ready. You should not reproach each other – it is necessary to look for the cause of a quarrel peacefully.